it doesn't hurt to feel sexy

I can understand where you are coming from about your situations in the Philippines. And I know you're not the only one that struggles everyday of the hard life how people make a living to earn day by day when they go to work and even those that have their own business whether how big or small it is. I look at sexy in another level and some of the things you said makes a lot of sense, sexy in a proper way and being sexy in a good way for just one person, then again I see sexy if one has their priorities set straight, organized and an attitude that is sexy as well. To me I don't consider a woman sexy if she just relies too much on wanting to focus on her looks, her body for the wrong reasons to grab attention and flaunting her see if she can get the crowd going - but a woman who is sexy of action, progression, beautiful and for one man who can love her and be with her. I don't doubt in mind that you are sexy and if you feel that way more power to you. And I know that you're speaking of me because yes we have been together, we spoke, talked, I helped you and we had lots of fun together. I do miss you too and if ever the time comes yes we can see each other again. Happy mylotting and keep up the good work!

I see where you are coming from in this topic. For me I don't find myself sexy like in a way because of my body. I am a decent girl as to say being pretty is more like. But yes it is good to call yourself sexy around your partner, enjoying your beauty as long you understand what the meaning is of being a woman - of independence and one who is stable in life. One of my big turn offs is when women who show off too much so prideful that they think for being sexy that will humiliate themselves to hurt other men just for them to look at them in a bad manner.

I'm a 40-year-old mom and yes, I do feel sexy! so does my 4-year-old kid. I try to do my work well, be a good mom, a good daughter to my mother, and a good sister to my siblings. If I carry myself well, and am proud of myself, I go ahead and pamper myself, and dress up in any way that upholds my sense of self, and I don't feel inferior because I am doing ok.

Thanks for sharing and I can understand where you are coming from. But I also think as a woman anywhere, we deserve to feel sexy and be able to be sexy for your man. and for yourself. I think it is good for a woman's self esteem to look and feel sexy and good about yourself. And I don't know about you, but I am alot more productive and get things done alot easier when I feel I feel good about myself. There is also a difference between looking sexy and looking trampy. I hope you understand what I mean here. I also hope you get your wish. Good luck!

I don't feel too sexy myself, but my girl tells me the contrary. I wonder if she's being honest. At the other hand, my girl sure is sexy, and i really mean what I say. There are times when we go out together on which is hard to endure people looking at her in a... not so discrete way. I don't use to pay attention, and she does not shows it, but I think she likes to be noticed. In a way, i feel the same: it's like of being a winner or something like that. I don't think it hurts to one to take care of oneself. After, looking at sexy women walking in the streets is not a thing i could say i don't enjoy. If people do respect you, and you respect the standards of lookings of each situation, so tere's no problem. Just don't try to go demi-naked to a class in a school: the professor could not enjoy it (or he could enjoy, and that would be a problem, for sure) See you.