They way my boyfriend make me feel and my family

I am a man and I have got this to say: Get rid of the pr**k. Any socalled man who treats women like that are not fit to be called men. He ain't worth it.

I know you love him but love isn't enough. Why do you love him if he treats you that way? I kept thinking my EX would change. So many women think they can change their men. Ain't gonna happen! Boys will be boys and if he is not willing to give up the booze and the smokes, then he will have to give up you. That's the ultimatum you should put forth. I know you've heard this before, probably a million times. But love is blind and we don't know how much we are hurting ourselves when we stay in relationships like this. I spent six years gripping a steering wheel really tight every weeknight when I drove home from work wondering what was waiting for me at home. Once my EX left I felt so much better, the pimples on my back cleared up, I was able to relax and enjoy my life. No more walking on egg shells. The only one you should be thinking about is you. You have to take care of YOU. Only YOU can make yourself happy and being with this guy is not making you happy. I know it is hard to do. I stuck with it until HE left, not me. I realized AFTER the fact that I should have left years earlier - heck, I shouldn't have married him at all. I hope things change and/or you make the right decision. Good luck!

Does your family advise you to leave him or stick with him? In any case I don't understand why people stay in abusive relationships. If you don't have enough means to leave and live on your own, go to an abused women's shelter and re-build your life. Good luck.

Depression is part of everyones life, it all depends on how much you let it get to you. Me myself I am chronically depressed, I take my meds everyday and enjoy my children daily and try to find joy by going out to thrift stores and walmart and occasionally get my nails done, you have to do things for yourself and take a look in the mirror daily and realize you must make yourself happy and not let negative people or things get in your way. You must get the negative as i like to the the devil out of your life and accept. GOD He is the only one who can make you happy.

The whiskey is an exscuse. If he really cares about you he will quit doing things that hurt you, and if that means giving up the whiskey he would. I strongly suggest that you get out of there. You deserve better than that.

Sounds like running away would be a good idea. You could probably find help at a domestic violence shelter. Verbal abuse is sometimes worse than physical abuse because the scars are not as noticeable. But it's still a form of abuse. I would recommend calling a domestic violence hotline and see what they could do for you.

You don't need a drunk in your life.dump him now! Putting up with his behavior is self punishment. Go out and find yourself a sober boy friend!

Do you have a job? If you don't, get one and get the hell outta there. You are young and strong and deserve better than drunken verbal abuse. Go. Run. Even if you have to go home to your family and eat a little crow, you're better off. Good luck.

Don't stay in this relationship... you are not commited with that piece of paper... get out while you can... You don't want the verbal abuse... it isn't worth it... I sit here depressed trying to figure out how to get out.. Its hurting my kids... Don't let it happen to you if you can get out!

Maybe the solution to his drinking problem is breaking up with him. Then maybe if you leave him, he'll feel that he's hurting you whenever he's drunk. Just an opinion.

First thing is be glad his is only your boyfriend, no real ties. Many Many good men out there, go get another one. When families are not supportive, it can be very discouraging. Maybe you do need to get away somewhere for awhile. Not run away, walk away. Don't hide, find something you like to do. Good Luck, you have control of the situation.

Why oh why are you with him then ?