Love making Problem

ONe of the most important things to do is to talk to your wife and see if there is a special reason. She might be stressed or tired from work or some other reason. When people are depressed their libido decreases so that might be a reason and sometimes when people are depressed they don't even realize it so if your wife doesn't really seem sure of the reason why that is happening maybe it's a good idea to check if she might not be depressed. But the main thing certainly is talking to her and hear what she says. The reason might be simple or complex but communication can allow both of you to understand what is happening.

First of all you need to find out why! Ask her! Then you can work on the problems from there. If she is just missing the affection and love in the relationship then put a little more effort into it. I know when we are married, we tend to fall into a comfort zone and daily routines and we find that we aren't as romantic as we used to be or as attentive as we need to be. Just ask!

Perhaps she has just lost interest in making love? Women are funny creatures, not always easy to understand and rarely make sense. What may appear like a lack of interest to you could mean a hundred different things to her. May she is unhappy with other aspects of her life (body image, weight/shape, work, family, children the list is endless) Unfortunately as her soul mate you bear the brunt of her problems. Follow the suggestions of others, talk to her, make a huge effort, be romantic and all the rest of it. Most importantly listen to what she says. I am sure together you will be able to rekindle the fires of love that once engulfed you both!

i think there are some problem happen her. almost a wife not doing to lie to her husband if husband first lie to her. A wife just accept what will happen to her

do research for reasons. Before you ask her, ask yourself first how do you show your affection and intimacy to her, do you still groom yourself like you used to? Maybe you change in some way, and she found you not that much interesting anymore. In her case, find out just like what other comments say maybe she have some physical problem, stress, tired, busy. Anyway, it is always good to be with someone we love for the rest of our life, for me love making lessen my stress, because i feel i am always assured for the unwavering love of my hub, it is indeed one spice in a lasting marriage. i know someone whose wife lost interest in making love with her hubby, not only that, she shows she no longer interested in him entirely, why? recently the husband found out his wife have other relationship with another man. I'm not saying your wife is cheating, but that can be a possible reason. It is only to love making your wife not interested in you or not interested in your entire existence anymore?

You don't say what's been going on but there's going to be a deep seated reason why this is happening. Have you tried talking to her? You have to be gentle and understanding - it's the only way she will confide in you as to what is going on with her feelings. Things are never as simple as they seem, and there's usually a build up of reasons or many unresolved problems that will cause a woman to withdraw from intimate contact. So you will have to also be kind, and very very patient. If she finds it difficult to talk to you alone, perhaps a counsellor could help you get started and try to explore the reasons. It's a very slow process though whichever route you take, it's not as simple as identifying the problem and then your wife will be happy to jump back into bed. No, it just won't work like this. In the meantime, try and think...has your wife just had a baby? Have either of you recently been bereaved? Could she be suffering from depression? These are just a few questions you could ask yourself before you approach this sensitive subject with her. remember be patient and gentle and understanding

That's not going to happen in this marriage. I don't think my husband and I will ever get sick and tired of making love to eachother.