Do you feel DISCOURAGED seeing no responses for your DISCUSSIONS???-
By evangleen
@evangleen (218)
India
8 responses
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
4 Feb 08
Yeah when I don't see any responses for my discussions in kind of upsets me. I always try to make discussions that really mean something, and I am really looking for opinions and answers.
if doesn't discourage me never to make another one, but I defeniatly wish someone would take the time to respond if I took the time to make.
@evangleen (218)
• India
4 Feb 08
ya taking time to respond.... thats what I have started newly,AS earlier I would just wait for answers but now I have realised how important it is to help others too, besides this its easier as well!!
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@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
4 Feb 08
Yeah, I do make my own discussions from time to time. But then I leave them alone for a while and start responding to others. Maybe by the time I'm done responding my discussion will have a lot of responses I can reply too.
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@danzer (2723)
• Philippines
4 Feb 08
Of course getting a response is better than nothing. But let's not expect much about our posts. In everything we do, expect the unexpected! It's part of the game. With or without response, go ahead. But learn also why people did not respond. It might not be interesting to everyone!
Don't despair! I have responded to your post. Add me as a friend.
@evangleen (218)
• India
4 Feb 08
hi Danzer,
Thanks for responding :)
I AM PLEASED TO HAVE YOU AS MY FRIEND :)!
I love unexpected things in my life as a whole be it my exam results, friends whom I meet, or gifts lol!!
I am feeling to mark it as the best response.
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@manu_ghimire (2626)
• India
4 Feb 08
well beautiful lady..
i dont get disappointed at all , instead i start many like that so that people would reply at least few...so long what i had seen is ..we must think about qoute and phrases that attracts people to reply......i think that way and i keep on starting many discussion.
you look pretty in side pose, dieing to have you as friend on mylot.
keep smiling
@evangleen (218)
• India
5 Feb 08
Thank you :))
Dont have to die coz am Glad to be your friend too......!! I think you are added already....???
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@evangleen (218)
• India
6 Feb 08
WELL EVANGLEEN means ....I THINK one who spreads the teachings of God.....i dont know if my name spells right in that respect but still it has biblical meaning...... messenger!!
@manu_ghimire (2626)
• India
6 Feb 08
oh!! i should have searched before saying anything....dat was beautiful.....indeed ....so may have pleasure to know ur good name.....
sorry if i have hurted you...i was just kiddin.........
@pepjack (53)
• India
5 Feb 08
Ya i do feel.
i feel that a particular discusion will be interestin and
i will start it.
but after 2 days also there will be no responses
which makes me feeel sad and takes me back.
but still i make up my mind to create a best one;.
Since we have to survive by giving the best :)
@evangleen (218)
• India
5 Feb 08
NICE WORD: "survive!!"
A LIL' SCARY THOUGH!!
I too wanna give in my best shot now......
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@evangleen (218)
• India
4 Feb 08
hey,
ill surely check that too,
And I have found that responding surely helps gain atleast some hope that the people you respond to would recognise you when they get to your discussions ....isnt it??
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@bongkarpasang (1377)
• Indonesia
6 Feb 08
well, I ever felt this way too. but later I thought that maybe people don't know what to respond. for example, like the one I started about (Drupal vs Wordpress), I got no response so far, perhaps because they don't use Drupal and they didn't know what to respond then.
just don't get down so easy. I believe the best way to get response is to respond the others' first and let them notice that you also start one discussion on your own. :)
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@evangleen (218)
• India
6 Feb 08
ya ur so right....it has started working already and i even made some friends and now I even look into their profiles to check discussions (as a courtesy) even if that is not related to my interests.
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
4 Feb 08
I don't have very many discussions without responses but when I do find I have one I don't like it. I don't feel ignored but I wonder why no one has responded when I think it is a pretty good discussion. I make sure I give my discussions lots of good tags so they get exposed a lot, and I have a lot of friends on my list, so it doesn't make sense to me that I would not get a single response. I have some discussions with only one or two responses and that's okay with me because I can comment back later on, after a couple weeks, and that usually brings more responses.
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@evangleen (218)
• India
5 Feb 08
Well it seems that you are sailing quite smoothly.....!! great going dude!!Then keep it up!!
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@honeylore23 (1081)
• United States
4 Feb 08
Getting no response to discussions I have started normally upsets me, but on the other hand, I find it good and rewarding because it helps me encourage to work and give my best.
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@evangleen (218)
• India
5 Feb 08
yeah it does but when it becomes a constant phenomenon as in my case, I feel like dying !!
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