what you want from your life?

If I was to die tomorrow, I would like to know I was a positive influence on my children and other people and that I would be missed. But not just missed. I want them to say that I would have said this...or done this. I want my life to have had meaning not just be a digit in a book of statistics. While I am still alive, I want to live comfortably...enjoy my husband and children. Create awesome memories. Although I want to live comfortably I don't want to only be thinking of money all the time, or that be my focus. Afterall we can't take it with us when we go right?