Do you comment on every last person who responds in your discussions?.

United States
February 4, 2008 7:39pm CST
I usually try to get most people, but i do not respond to every single person when i get alot of responces. if i have like 5 or 6 then i do or even like 10 but in a group of 40 i do not do all 40. how about you?. and do you feel like the person is being rude if the do not respond to your responce?... thanks xoxoxobritt
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
5 Feb 08
Since last month... i always make a comment to every single person that made a response to my discussion... before i only like choose half... but now even if i get 30 or only 3 responses... i always leave a comment... i feel that it is but polite to say thank you eventhough what they wrote do not exactly jive with my opinion... I feel that a member is rude when he or she never ever makes a comment but starts like tons of discussions...
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
5 Feb 08
I agree with you, aseretdd, to a point. There are those who start many discussions (usually of no real value) and never revisit them, even to give a Best Response! They are the careless ones who are really only casual visitors. If one is hurt by their 'rudeness' in not responding, then it is probably because one doesn't understand human nature sufficiently. I always feel honoured when someone makes a comment on my post which is more than just a 'Thank you for your response'. I actually value that kind of comment very little. I would rather that someone didn't waste their time thanking me if they have no real interest in the discussion they started!
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• United States
5 Feb 08
See my problem is ,is somtimes i cant really think of anything to say back.lol but to just be like .. thanks for your responce!. wouldnt that get on peoples nerves?.:P i do try to comment back to most poeple but like i said there are some i just cant come up with anything to say back:(
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• United States
6 Feb 08
Well what i mean by not being able think of anything to say back, is when, say okay i asked this person... all they say is, Yes i usually try to but somtimes dont get them all back no. what am i supposed to say to that, that i havent already said to someone else?... i am not ayaing i can think of anything to say back because im not intrested in my topic. if im not intrested in my own topic. what makes me think anyone else would be? therefore i wouldnt waste my time posting on somthing i didnt find intresting... xoxoxbritt
• United States
5 Feb 08
No I do not. If I don't have anything good or productive to say, I don't see any reason to respond to them. It's pointless really and it just ends up clogging up the page with a bunch of responses that mylot does not want. If I have something to add, I'll mention it, if not, I leave it alone.
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• United States
5 Feb 08
see thats how ive always looked at it. besides the fact that mylot doesnt want it, they should make a daily or weekly new letter to let us know these things:P...
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@mrsjbelle (1640)
• United States
6 Feb 08
High Flying nails it here:) Precisely! :)
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
5 Feb 08
No I don't it would just take too long. However I do respond to some of them replies in any thread I've started...besides we arents suppose to reply to every response I dont think...and no it doesnt bother me at all if the OP doesnt respond to my reply....
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• United States
5 Feb 08
So like i said before. they should so like send out a weekly newsletter letting us know what they do and dont want lol because someone in the beggining says that thats what they want is for es to respond to everyone...and as far as you know its not wanted, I need to go check this out lol how do you find out what spacifically they want and dont want?..im curious now:P thanks for responding:D
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
5 Feb 08
i just dont have that kind of time to do that. i would like to, but well with 2 part time jobs, a house, kids, a hubby i just cannot... but i do appreciate everyones response!! :-)
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• United States
5 Feb 08
Um yeah i would definatly say you were a busey person LMAO!! thanks for taking the time out to respond to this.... xoxoxbritt
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• India
5 Feb 08
Hi Mikes! I am a pretty embarased to say that I dont get so many responses to my discussions although my discussions are of good quality and not boring as I feel...... But I most often respond to their responses for sure. I think it helps us in two ways. Firstly, the person responding to my discussions dont feel that I am rude to him/her and they get more freindly to me. Secondly, More I add coments, more my discussion stays in recent discussions that help in getting more responses to my discussion... Hope, my discussions too get some more number of responses after reading this...
• United States
5 Feb 08
Well first off i would like to say sorry to hear that you dont get to many responces to your responces, And i am sure that they are goos quality as well as this one. You know ive never thought about it the w ay you stated it. but does make good sence, i often do look in recent discussions so i see how this would work... thank you for taking your time to repsond:) i learned somthing new from ya!... great responce and thank you. xoxoxbritt
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@lightningd (1039)
• United States
5 Feb 08
I try to respond to all of them, if I have time, but sometimes, I just don't have a chance. I do however, try to go back over my discussions every so often to see if I missed responding to anyone. I guess I figure it is common courtesy. I greatly appreciate it when others respond when I have commented on their discussions.
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• United States
5 Feb 08
Yeah , i guess i shall work on this more. i dont want people to think i dont care, i go through and read all of everyones and i do make sure to rate every single person.. thanks!
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
5 Feb 08
I feel that, perhaps, I comment less than people may expect me to. The Guidelines do say that you should not thank everyone who posts because it doesn't earn you anything. I have always found that particular guideline a little odd in its reasoning, though it is quite true that, in the money sense, it is a waste of time. If people post to my discussions and their post needs a reply, then I will comment. I don't believe it is rude (and I would ask others not to think it rude of me) not to write a comment to every response. Most responses are welcome (except those that add nothing to a discussion, of course, but merely reply with a monosyllable!) and I comment on those that I feel need it, otherwise, an opinion expressed is merely an opinion and needs no special acknowledement.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
7 Feb 08
:d
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• United States
6 Feb 08
:).....
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
5 Feb 08
i really do try but it doesn't always happen. if i miss coming on for a few days and that post gets to 30 or 40 replys then i don't really. i try but i don't always get to all of them
• United States
6 Feb 08
Yea that would be alittle overwhelming. and then take away from your time doing other things on here... i understand that... xoxoxbritt
@nancyrowina (3850)
5 Feb 08
Normally my discussions aren't that popular as I discuss less mainstream topics than the masses on here, so I have time to comment on everyone who responds response. But the few discussions I've had that have had lots of responses do get difficult to keep track of and I sometimes don't manage to comment on everyones response. I try to comment though as it bumps your topic back up to the top of the list of discussions peoples friends started, as well as being polite.
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• United States
6 Feb 08
LMAO, i think this is what i need to do, i dont mean any harm by not responding to everyone but. my goodness my one post was up to 38 people.. thats alot of respond :P. And this one is getting up there it has like 24 now:P... but if u look through i have responded to most people... thanks for your time hun:D.
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
5 Feb 08
No I don't respond to every single person. Sometimes I just have nothing to comment about. They said their piece I might not agree so I might not write anything.
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• United States
5 Feb 08
Agreed.... thanks for sharing your thoughts on this:) xoxobritt
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• United States
5 Feb 08
As for wether my lot does or does not want "clogging" in discussions this is what i found "Be sure to rate users’ discussions, responses, comments, and photos for the new myLot reputation system. The myLot reputation rating is decided by myLot users" but this is the only i seen that states what they want in discussions. However, this reputation thing thats going on , would help beeter in this situation if you responded to every single one. so really its your choice, theres no u have to or my lot wants it. it all depends on you and what you want...
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@pastorkayte (2255)
• United States
5 Feb 08
You know what I try but sometimes it depends on what I am working on, I will write back as much as possible though. I like for them to know that I take what they are writing about as seriously as ever.
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• United States
5 Feb 08
Yeah i know what you mean:)
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@egr134 (192)
• Argentina
5 Feb 08
I have never made a question that was so popular, so I don't know. Nearly always, my questions are answered by 4 or 5 people and hardly ever I comment on all their answers, but I heard it is good to comment a lot because it allow the discussion to carry on.
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• United States
6 Feb 08
Yeah i am just not learning ab9out that. somthing i did not know. i guess there is a buncha i still dontknow about my lot. but i know one thing, when you are not really catagorizing your discussions right, not laot opf people respond usually, so you might wanna check into that:) just alittle tip. i learned that one real quick:P thanks for responding:) xoxoxoxbritt
• United States
5 Feb 08
yup i leave comments for everyone who respoonds to my discussions and yes id feel rude if i didnt
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• United States
6 Feb 08
awsome:) thanks for the response!
• United States
5 Feb 08
i feel the same way as you :]]
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• United States
6 Feb 08
Good to know:) thanks and have a great night
@onesiobhan (1327)
• Canada
6 Feb 08
I admit I do try. Usually the first few people will get a response. After that I just get too overwhelmed.
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• United States
6 Feb 08
Yea, even this right here for me im alittle over whelmed lmao:P and theres only like what 24 here:P....thanks for your responce:D
• United States
6 Feb 08
If there are only a short amount of responses to the discussion I am responding to I think they ought to respond to my response. But if there are quite a few responses than I really don't feel they are being rude if they don't respond to my response. As far as myself when I start a discussion I respond to as many people as I can. I don't get everyone but it is not because I don't want to. There is only so much time I have to spend on the computer. I do appreciate each and every response I get on each of my discussions.
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• United States
6 Feb 08
thank you. and i do take what u have said into mind..thanks:)
• Philippines
5 Feb 08
I try my best to respond to every single person who responds to the discussions I post. However, at times, I really don't have much time to do that so I just reply to unique responses first then get back to the others when I have enough time to spare.
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• United States
5 Feb 08
I definatly know what your saying, when im on here i try to respond like you do,but im always going back and forth to topics my friend started to hot topics of the day and topics with no responces, i just keep myself so busey, i just comment back on some not all....
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@mrsjbelle (1640)
• United States
6 Feb 08
No its not possible to reply to ever single one for me Sorry I mean well
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• United States
6 Feb 08
Im sure you do, im sure everyone does. but like you it is just not possible for some people.. i so understand this.. xoxobritt
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@mrsjbelle (1640)
• United States
6 Feb 08
I Do READ every single response I get though because to me thats the point of learning something new and how others feel. Someone else put it well if I have something to add I will if not I dont because like you posted in the rules the last sentence. Of course we want to be courtious because we our just nice people but everyones comments on my discussions are read & appreciated:)
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• United States
5 Feb 08
I try to respond to all of them and thank them. I atleast want to let them know that I appreciate there time for answering them.
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• United States
5 Feb 08
Yeah, and i do appreciate the responces alot.. thanks:)
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@madasp (563)
• United States
5 Feb 08
I try to answer all of them, but sometimes its hard to find something to say that you haven't already covered in an earlier response. I don't want to answer just to answer. I'd prefer my answer have more substance than just saying thanks. I do make sure I read them all though. LOL I seem to spend more time here reading rather than posting anyway!
• United States
5 Feb 08
You and me alike. this happends to me alot lol... thanks for responding hun:) xoxobritt
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