If you are mad, How can you got mad to your friend?
By jhazie
@jhazie (340)
Philippines
February 5, 2008 9:32am CST
Did you lose your temper if your friend stole your things? I have problem just yesterday. an old old friend from 12 years i didnt see,she married now with 8 children.she came to my house and i do work on net,she came at my room. ofcourse its our 3rd time talking here she comes always eat at lunch time although i trust her coz shes good friend from past. another day comes i notice my silver watch not on my secret mirror,nobody left aside from us i knew it shes the one who get it :( i notice she ask and ask money from me and clothes then i gave it. omg my silver watch not here suddenly came to mind about my friend i got mad. i knew it,she get.
Do you easily getting mad for that situation? how often you got mad to other people,family and friends in such problem? Do I confronted my friend and demand her?
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7 responses
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
6 Feb 08
Actually, if i was convinced that a friend stole from me, then I would not consider them a friend. If I had no proof but in my heart I knew it was them, I would stop letting them into my house and that would be it. a real friend would never ever steal from me. a real friend can be trusted. I would never even question the integrity of a REAL friend...there would be no cause to.
@jhazie (340)
• Philippines
6 Feb 08
well,yes thats right too. actually we dont see each other for so long about 12years after her mom saw me in mall then gave my address.thats it following day my friend come.im happy i see her again the worse i dont think she did that thing. in real im so mad about her and cry here. it is difficult to discover the truth about her. my trust easily destroy,hope she realise her mistakes. better to forget all. thanks for responding. have a great day!-jhaz
@onesiobhan (1327)
• Canada
6 Feb 08
You bet I would get mad if somebody I trusted was stealing my things.
I'd want to be very sure though. I would hate to accuse somebody who is innocent of wrongdoing.
@jhazie (340)
• Philippines
6 Feb 08
I was so sure she did took my watch, she have to realised she should not have made the remark. this happened so whats i do now, to accept not confronting her. May God bless her! nobody enter my room until she came then suddenly notice my watch not on my cabinet mirror shelf.
Im just sad now,sometimes cry its so expenssive you know. thanks for responding. have a great day posting!
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
5 Feb 08
Oh yes i would face her and ask her why she took my watch,do not ask her IF she took it,because she will deny it...Tell her that you know she took your watch and tell her you want it back...If she gives it back then tell her that you cannot be friends with her because she stole from you..If she deny;s it, there is not to much you can do..Just tell her that you can no longer be friends with her,the reason is because she is needy and you cannot afford to give,cloths,food and money and that you feel she is a thief....I don't get angry,i just comely talk to people and tell them what i think.I see no reason to loose my temper,and scream and all that,its bad for your health..I will not let someone get me so mad that i have a heart attack or stroke,its not worth it...
@jhazie (340)
• Philippines
6 Feb 08
Hi friend, youre right, but still i got so sad. i admit i was very mad at her but later this day its gone just sad you know. my mom came mad today and she need to confront my friend but i told mom theres nothing to do with that. you know why sis my watch is so expenssive without my watch my younger brother could not discharge in the hospital coz mom dont have enough money that day. suddenly,my mom moods changed so quickly then she told me will ask frm astrologer lol :) thanks for responding,whatever happen maybe i accept. May God bless her, God knows it. soon she realize and she cant come back again to my house.
@zodgfamily (285)
• China
5 Feb 08
That's really annoying.Best friends don't mean you can take all his things as yours.And best friends need much more for us to care than common friends.The first rule of friends is to be trustable.If I were you,I won't confront her,and I would never consider her as my friend in future.
@jhazie (340)
• Philippines
6 Feb 08
Yes youre right, till now im just relax but sad you know. things like this we need to be careful of all important things and to choose friends also. but im not a kind of girl so messy with my belongings i know where i put my things, the bad thing is that i accept her to my house,she ask money and gave it,she eat all she can and this is it! then she stole!
OMG! i have my good lesson now. I learn so well now. thanks alot. have a great day.
@SukiSmiles (1991)
• United States
5 Feb 08
It is a hard thing to go through. I have had "friends" steal from me in the past. I have been mad and hurt, especially when they deny it. She obviously needs money for something. Unfortunately she does't care about your friendship. My personality is to forget it and her. I would not do anything with her anymore. She would definitately not be invited over anymore. If she tried without asking I would not let her and tell her that I am on a deadline or about to leave the house (and then go do an errand). If it is your personality to find out - I would ask her about it. Tell her your special watch went missing after the last time she was visiting. If she in is financial trouble, maybe you can give her a suggestion on where she can go for help. If you stay friends with her, make sure she knows that she does not have your trust.
@yuriii (150)
• Hong Kong
5 Feb 08
Of course I will mad with her.How can she steal her friend's thing? Or take away the others things without asking?If my friend stole my things,I will be very angry .And I won't forgive him until he apologize to me.Of course I hope my friend will give it back to me before I ask him.
