you love me for me? really?

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Men, it has come to my attention that not everyone is as lucky as my man...lol Do you find in a relationship that your woman is trying to change you? Does she accept you for who you are or who she would like you to be? My boyfriend is starting AIT this week (ARMY National Guard), before he left he was worried that I wouldn't love him anymore because he would be different when he came back. I told him that I love him just the way he is, but everything changes- we can't stop that- but that my love for him would change and grow as he did, and that no matter what I would always love him just the way he is. So does your lady love you for you? or are there things she is out to "modify"?