Where have all our MyLot friends disappeared to?

Good Morning Luna :))) I have taken hiatuses, from mylot myself, life gets busy for me in spurts. I always come back as I find Mylot addicting and I have friends here that bring laughter and smiles into my life every day I am on. I do have friends that have seemed to disappear, some I know why and keep in touch by other means but there are a few, that I wait for their return.

I am just waiting. In the past I used to delete some, but later I find out that they returned to Mylot after months...

Most people want to earn money quickly. Earning a dollar or two in a day is such an exhaustive work here, many of them become member of some other site where earning is easier. Those people who are genuinely interested in participating in discussions and responses, hang on to this site. Like me and several of my friends.

Hi ladyluna, I just went through my friends list the other day and I deleted out six of my friends that have not been on for over 6 months.I just thought maybe they just went to another site or no longer will be back to mylot. I still have a lot of friends so the six that i deleted did not make that much difference to me.

I have the same question! Some of my mylot friends have disappeared for some reason. I don't think I would delete them from my friend's list, I guess I hope that one day they would return here and we could chat again. I was away from mylot for around 3 months because I was on the road, I am not sure if anyone had deleted me (no way to check?) but I hope not *laughs*.

Well, even with my small list, there are those who have never responded in the first place, so it really doesn't make a difference. But if they were ones that I had numerous correspondence with, I get a little concerned. I wonder if something happened to them or if they have just quit. So, I'll send a PM to them to let them know I am thinking of them and I just wait. Seeing as to my list is so small, I am not worried about what room is taken up by the ones who seem to me MIA.

I took a bit of a mylot sabbatical for different reasons, and I don't think anyone deleted me but more people added me. Its hard sometimes to keep up with mylot and other things when you go through a lot of things through life.

Some I didn't removed, since I have fond memories with them. Others, I did.. I still have friends who haven't been here for quite a year now, I decided to keep them. I could wait for wait for them, if they'll return or not. But I just like to keep at least near their profiles, so I can visit them whenever I want to cherish the moments we've shared!;) The one's I delete are mostly because they didn't took much notice of my or other member's presence, that post and starts discussion then don't even comment to at least one response they received..

Hello LadyLuna, I've been absent from Mylot for quite a few months and I just came back a week or two ago. I used to drop people from my list if they were gone a certain amount of time but you never know when someone might come back that you missed. I was in a discussion the other day with another mylotter that completely forgot the url to mylot until by random chance she recieved an e mail notification from somebody's account that she never turned off and now she's back posting quite a bit. Just goes to show that you never know. I dont drop anyone anymore unless they've been offline more then six months. I've noticed that I've been dropped by a few myself but I dont really blame them, I wasnt here and it probably didnt look like I was coming back. Take care, Terry

I know waht you mean. I used to just let everything be as it was, but sometimes I was looking for a specific friend on my list and had to go trough pages and pages of people that hadn't even been here for a long time. So last month I just deleted quite a few. Basically all the ones that hadn't been here for 6 months or over. It made my friends list shorter and it is now easier to find people there, although there are many that haven't been here for some months and might be deleted as well if it reaches 6 months. That's my cu out unless I know that the person is away for a specific reason and will be back.

Hi ladyluna, I recommended two friends to mylot and they register as my referrals and their participation rate is minimum or none since their joining. When asked them about mylot, they will say either busy or no time which sounds like an excuse to get me off the picture. What I think is due to the earning rate that is low and do not possess the adventure spirit, they find it unnecessary for them to continue their participation.

Many of my friends are inactive too. However, I do not delete them. I patiently await their return. Neither have I been actively requesting friendship since I am one of those inactives too. Recently I have received notifications from some of these old friends... it is really a warm feeling.

Hello ladyluna, Yes, my Friends list is populated by people who have disappeared from the face of planet mylot, though I believe that most, if not all, of them would be somewhere on the planet earth. Some haven’t logged in for around a year, others for several months and very few have been banned or have terminated their accounts here. What I do with them? Well, I am a conservative in the sense that I like to conserve relationships whether they are with generally perceived non-living objects (like books, work books of my school days or my belongings) or with breathing earthlings (in non-negative meaning) like a tree, an animal, my colleagues, students, teachers and of course my friends, offline and online. I like to be the last person to even consider a breakup. That’s why even given their long inactivity, I haven’t deleted contacts from my Friends list, and not even those who I know for sure have terminated their accounts or have been banned (2 or 3) in a hope that they may come back somehow (magically) or get reinstated. I haven’t even deleted the one who has ‘0’ post counts here. This is not because of laziness at my part as I do visit my lost friends’ profiles every now and then to see if they have given mylot another chance. I also visit some peoples’ profiles that were never on my friends list but I used to enjoy discussions with them. Yes, they have gone, but my gates are open to welcome them back whenever they choose so. So, they aren’t going anywhere until my clock ticks and blows whistle for my departure from this planet, or maybe not even after that, who knows!:-). I do have deleted 2-4 people because of their continuous offending and spamming others (not me). Still, it was, if I am recalling correctly, after they were either banned or had gone with the wind. My longest absence from mylot has been for around 2 months. And, if I am not being over-confident about my memory, only one has deleted me from his/her friends list. It wasn’t during the period of inactivity though. It was just because he/she had/has differences with me. I guess, I lack initiative, both in starting a friendship and terminating it, for different set of reasons, none of which is about indolence!

I'm rather lazy about culling out the list, but it pretty much depends on how big a bank of trust they have built up with me before they disappeared. If someone was pleasant and conscientious about replying to others and started interesting discussions I would leave them on for quite some time. Do you know whether friends disappear from our friend list if they get banned from myLot or if they just sit there. I supposed I should check from time to time to see if any of the silent ones have had all of their discussions wiped.

Please don't worry, I think perhaps some of the Mylotters are Chinese. Nowadays it's the Chinese New Year holiday, perhaps they are quite busy with it. In fact I also haven't seen some of my good friends here for some time. I don't know where they go. Perhaps they are busy at this moment.

hi very good

Hey Lady, I guess you pretty much know where I am all the time(:). I sent the cool pics via e-mail. I wonder if you adjusted the ladybug a little in corel or some other photo works if it would then be possible to upload it as an avatar. I will try with the one I want to use. If it works I will let you know and then you can do the same. Change is good for you. It helps you grow, or somethiong like that.lol Toodles Shalom~Adoniah

I think that you should just leave them on your friends list and who knows they might come back some day.