cheaters

Philippines
February 7, 2008 1:14am CST
why do men cheat?
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20 responses
@danzer (2723)
• Philippines
7 Feb 08
If you mean cheating his girl in a relationship, then I can say that not all men does! It does not mean that when your man cheated you that you are going to generalize it. That's why it is imperative to know the man carefully and to retain your purity until marriage. If you have given yourself, and he has gone for good, you have nothing more to be proud of to your future husband. Learn from your past and move on. It's not the end of the world for you!!
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• Uganda
7 Feb 08
This is good advice, it really works...
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• Philippines
8 Feb 08
I cant help but agree, its really not the end of the world.
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@jhazie (340)
• Philippines
8 Feb 08
All i know in my opinion men cheat if his partner is a nagger but not all men, almost! if relationship unhappy both of them cheating each other,thats bad :-/
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@felicas83 (311)
• Ecuador
8 Feb 08
because it is on our nature, i mean that is natural for men to cheat, jajajaja, maybe in the past that was the situation, but in the actual times both men and women cheat, the difference is that men usually get caught, but women not so often!!!
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• Pakistan
8 Feb 08
welcome at mylot elix11. I do not agree with your statement. All men do not cheat. Noble men are also available. All women are not same as the all men are not the same. women are also cheater. both have the group cheaters in them. remember that the person who cheats some one, he or she cheats him/ her self.
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• Pakistan
8 Feb 08
welcome at mylot elix11. I do not agree with your statement. All men do not cheat. Noble men are also available. All women are not same as the all men are not the same. women are also cheater. both have the group cheaters in them. remember that the person who cheats some one, he or she cheats him/ her self.
@aaanusha (17)
• India
8 Feb 08
hi..... the thing there are many reasons y men actually cheat.. i believe that men are not cheaters by birth..it is circumstances which makes them do so...
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• United States
8 Feb 08
Why does anyone cheat?? There are reasons why men & women cheat. Only the person who does it can really answer why they do it.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 08
You have the best answer. If I'm thread starter, you gain my best response.
@coffeeshot (3783)
• Australia
15 May 08
Because they're stupid.
@chaigay20 (166)
• Philippines
19 May 08
because they are weak and born polygamous (most of them but not all =)) it's not just men though. women also cheats. there are playboys as well as playgirls. balance of nature i should say. not all people (men or women) believes in the word "faithful nad monogamy".
• United States
1 Mar 08
Hello elize11 and welcome to mylot. Well there is no excuse at all for cheating. I still ahve not found a man that has a good reason to why he has cheated. It is really ashame that men cheat when they have 80% of what they truly want and need in a woman. They cheat with a woman who only contains 20& of the things. I am sitting here wondering why do men cheat too. Especially when we as women are told that we are there everythings. Then after they cheat they want for us to be quick to forgive and accept the fact that they hurt us and get over it. Well what if we started cheating as much as they do. How would they take it? I mean men are so crazy these days but hey I found that one that has 100% of everything he wants and needs in me. So I am all good on that. Well elize11 with that said, NakitaLikely3617 is out. By the way you should add me as a friend.
• Pakistan
7 Feb 08
actually it is natural to feel attracted to other women than your own wife. but people respond to these feelings differently. the people who suppress these feelings are not cheaters but those who respond to these feelings are known as cheaters. there are many reasons for a person to cheat. some do it because they are frustrated some do it cause they think that they did not get what they were looking for. but i've noticed that most people do it cause they do not get enough satisfaction sexually and morally from their own partner. it is not a fault from one side. it is a two way communication. so both sids has to be blamed. have a nice time
@MagicGuy (157)
• United States
18 Feb 08
It is not natural, says God. When you look/feel like you have to have her/him you are sinning... ...I suppose it is natural to notice beauty, but not to be wanting... ...If this is what psychiatrists are telling you, then that's another reason I don't believe in them.
@shamsta19 (3224)
• United States
9 Feb 08
Sha.Severe - ME doin the usual. Chillin
I can name so many reasons. What if: She isn't giving you what you need in bed? She isn't appealing to you anymore? She gains A LOT of weight? She is disrespectful to you? She isn't intimate enough with you?Sometimes it isn't because we dont love them but we urge for something different. Not neccessarily better but different. Sometimes it is JUST temptation and NOTHING ELSE! The devil is out there you know? Personally there are too many sexy a** people in the world for any of us to want to settle down with any one person or is there?
@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
14 May 08
hi elize. its the same reason why women cheat... insecurity.
14 May 08
Men cheat because they are unhappy and the same goes for women. I have friends who are getting married in the near future and my husband I suspect he is cheating. When you call him at work there are kids talking and yelling in the back ground. In his work environment there are no kids. He stays away from home and when asked why his response is why would I want to go home. As much as I want to tell her she won't believe it and will just get angry. This is one marriage that is doomed from the start. If he was happy he would want to be home with her and his kids.
@freak369 (5113)
• United States
7 Feb 08
It's not just men that cheat, women do it too. It's part of human nature to want something that you can't have but most of the time people find out that it wasn't worth it or the risk that was involved in it.
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
7 Feb 08
i think, it's not all men are cheaters..there are some, yes, but not all..some men really cheat, maybe they really like that, maybe they dont want to have a serious relationship, maybe they want something new..it's bad, i know, but there are also girls who are cheaters right?
@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
8 Feb 08
Cheating can be done by both men and women. As far as I know, a person will cheat if there's something bad going on in a relationship. If both parties are losing faith, trust and understanding, then the idea of cheating comes in. I never cheated anyone. I was cheated before. I felt betrayed. I just thought that when you love, you should be prepared to be hurt as well. They are correlational.
• Philippines
8 Feb 08
These question was raise once in our class, my professor told us that men by nature are polygamous. I don't buy it. Grrr.
• United States
7 Feb 08
Yes men cheat and so do women! This is partly becuase in todays world it is becoming the norm. You know everybodies doing it so why not. Not a good thing but it is the truth. People want something different in thier life so they go out and get it. It is wrong yes but society has opened it up so publicly that it is happening at a rapid pace. Just remember that most if not all will be caught at some point and will have to face the music shall we say. If they are willing to throw away all they have for an affair then so be it. We hurt the ones we love is the saying right.
@fazelath (1174)
• India
7 Feb 08
not only men but even females cheat,may be it is because they dont value or respect what they have,they want something more,and may be they feel they dont deserve what they have and deserve something more