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My question is... Do you love your girlfriend? and do you respect her? Well, if you do why would you think about those things? Don't give me the love thing reason. Be honest! It's just lust my friend! :) Well, if ever you proceed in this kind of thing. I suggest use some protection. She is still a minor after all and what if she gets pregnant? That's something you have to think about. Happy Postings! :)

hmmm.. if you respect your girlfriend..and you really love her and ready to commet with her. and if you think your ready for all the responsibilities.. or think hundred times.. there are things that you need to think it first than making love at her in the first place.. there are so many things to do than making love. dont be rush.. your girlfriend is still a minor.. think of her and think whats best for her future.. she still young to commet..

it is your wish.. i dont think you should be waiting for someone else's advice or suggestion... a girl is ready, even you are ready.. so why are you checking with some other people.. do as you feel like.. when girl friend comes into picture, if you really love her, you should not ask anyone else for a suggestion.. no girls like it..

I do not know with your local laws about having physical contact with a minor. Please be aware of that as you could be accused for statutory rape. Even though she gave you the permission to do so the parents can sue you for these for doing it or may even slapped you for corruption of minor. But do check your local laws about it. maybe if you could do it discreetly and your girlfriend won't tell it to anyone then you are safe then.

in the US you could go to jail for this offense..and in a lot of other countries too..also does she have a protective family/friends? You may be opening a can of worms that you will not be able to handle.. My brother in law had made physical contact with a 14 year old women because he did not like her mother..and now they have 5 girls ..no boys and some grand children..but this all started in a "comfort room"..as he did this to spite his wifes mother...proceed at your own risk...it is much danger and poverty i can see in this arrangement as my wife and I have to support my brother in law..all he and his wife can do is make girl babies..but he is a good guy and I and my wife love him

if u have a gril friend,that is good,if ur love is true you wouldnt ask this question love is good ,but before ur marriege life it is not good, i think she agreed to this , but it is a intrest to see what is going by doing this,but i dont say dont break ur love,it is ur choice to selet what wiil be done in this sitituvation,it is human mind ,it cant stop,so do what ur inner mind say,but be careful.

Why not go ahead! But just ask yourself if she gets pregnant - are you ready to take on such a huge responsibility and take care of her and the baby. Do you really love her. Love need not be physical but has to be an emotionally stronger. Rest is up to you.

You say that it is you that wants to get physical,she is just agreeing to please you.She probably thinks if she says no,that you will leave her for somebody that will be physical with you. I don't know you at all but i think you may not agree but you ARE putting pressure on her.if you really do love her,you will wait till she is of legal age.Boys and Girls mature at different rates and there are very good reasons for these laws to be put in place. At that young age,we all thought we knew better and were mature in our thinking.

Are you gone crazy dont you know the law of the land you could land up in jail for seven years on charges of rape even though the girl consented because her consent does not matter she is a minor you need to take her parents consent. will they give it to you?

hey no problem its ur love so u just carry on dude ...all the best

minor girls are immature enough with such kind of activity..maybe she loves you that's why she agreed, but you love her? dont take advantage my friend because what if she will get pregnant? it's difficult for her..just think twice about it, this happines will not last long, it's only a lust..

So many variables here. Depending on your local laws you could go to jail for a long time for this. Legal issues aside, do you love her, does she love you, are you prepared to take the consequences of physical actions? Remember even the best protection fails and you could end up with a child, are you prepared for that?

Do you really love her??? first you have to understand the difference between love and attraction

If shes a minor then thats a no no, there are laws for a reason to protect people!!!

I think there are lots of things that are more important than body pleasure. As everyone had said respect for each other and love for each other etc are more important for physical contact. We always wants the people we love to be happy and does not want any harm to the people we love. I think healthwise it is not suitable to have physical contact with minors. It will create not only physical injuries, but also mental injuries. Believe me there are lots of cases in which I came across where the 13 years old 14 years old getting pregnant and shockingly children under 8 years old abused by others.

The question is,are you both ready for the consequences after doing the thing you want to do?And do you respect her?I think it's just a product of lust.Think twice before doing it.You might not want her to end up with a ruined life and same thing goes with you.

In my opinion ,if you love her ,you should not do that ,for your gf is minor and she is immature and you know that love is different from attraction.I think you can wait till your gf is old enough to do that.Don't you think that is very good for you all ?

sure man just goahead.. u just making love.. it is nothing bad in making love.. so u can proceed darling...

the others have it right. do you love her? and if shes still a minor, how much older are you compared to her? if you are questioning this desire, maybe you should hold off for a while. no matter how much you want to proceed. you have to think of what it could mean is something goes wrong (she could get pregnant). this sort of situation is not as easy as it seems. some would say go for it, while others say wait till you are both REALLY ready. dont want to regret anything.

Dude, don't. Even your girl may have reach puberty, but she is still a minor n some of the minors wanna give it a try without thinking. Later it has a bad effect upon them. They are not of the age to decide whats good or bad.