Have you written your "Ten Things I Must Do Before I Die."?

Hi Nilouette, I understand what Pinkon was saying... You can plan and plan, and maybe accomplish some of the things you think are important, and maybe not. But IS that important? Or is just living life as it comes, and being happy with that? I don't know how old you are, but over the passage of time, you learn that the things you once thought were important really matter very little. What matters is the relationships you have, what you have contributed to the world, etc., and generally being happy with your life day to day. This is what most terminally ill people will tell you they wished they had done. If you want to research that more... check out any book by Elisabeth Kubler Ross.