Confidence - the major factor.

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Confidence is a huge factor in attraction & relationships. But there is a difference between being confident & being conceeded. I've always played the roll of being more submissive, not that I lacked confidence, just that I was afraid of being conceeded. I'm sure that may sound silly to some. Share your stories about confidence & how it has played a roll in your love life. Here's one of my little tails: On my birthday the other year, my boyfriend and I got into an argument because he thought I should have more confidence and stand up for myself more. I agreed with him, which bothered him because I was agreeing instead of arguing...lol anyway, in the morning when it was time for me and the kids to go home I simply said "thank you, you're so sweet." he looked at me funny and said "thank you for what?" I said "for volenteering to load the stuff up in my van for me, you are such a gentleman." He just smiled and started loading stuff up in my van for me. It was so cute. He knew that had we not had that little talk the night before I would have just loaded everything up myself, so he was proud of me for saying something. I was confident, yet still a lady.