what will you do if you find out that you are being double timed ???

India
February 8, 2008 6:10am CST
Relationships are very important and faith and loyalty is of paramount importance... What will you do if you find out that your Girlfriend/Boyfriend is double timing you. What will be your reaction.. will you leave him/her???
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7 responses
posham
@posham (1236)
• Philippines
8 Feb 08
break it up and move on.. no second chances for losers who don't know what they want..
shailendraraj
@shailendraraj (259)
• India
12 Feb 08
Hmmmmmmmmm... thats one of the easiest to implement but hardest on oneself way to tackle the situation. and there's nothing wrong with this approach.
posham
@posham (1236)
• Philippines
12 Feb 08
i don't know.. i've worn that shoe not so long ago. and the most logical thing to do was veer away from a relationship like that. it was destructive and manipulative. and as it turned out, it was the smartest thing to do.
mitchz
@mitchz (131)
• Sweden
11 Feb 08
i will hit
shailendraraj
@shailendraraj (259)
• India
12 Feb 08
Baba re........... No violence please... hey dear why you want to do that.. Just walk out.. let the other person think why you did that... let him waste his mind and time...Relax...
valerieanne
@valerieanne (811)
• United States
8 Feb 08
You have to trust the person you are in a relationship with. Trust is the number one thing when it comes to relationships. Love is something that grows, trust HAS to be there at the beginging. If my bf/gf were cheating on me I'd def leave them. There is no excuse for staying with them.
shailendraraj
@shailendraraj (259)
• India
12 Feb 08
Trust and loyalty - these are the two strengths of a relationship.. if one breaks this then not mush is left to continue.. s o you are right in what you said.
tonixxx
@tonixxx (358)
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8 Feb 08
I would leave without hesitation, i love my fiance but once the trust is gone there is no turning it around. Paranoia would set in and both our lives would be a misery. It would be for the best for both of us and the selfless thing to do.
shailendraraj
@shailendraraj (259)
• India
12 Feb 08
Thats a quick one... and not much of consideration of what made him do what he did?? Wont you be interested in finding out what went wrong???
ohwellie
@ohwellie (140)
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8 Feb 08
I would discuss it with him. I would like to think that I'd be able to leave him if he were to cheat on me. But to be honest, it would depend on the situation and whether we'd think we'd be able to work thing out (or if we'd want to for that matter.)
shailendraraj
@shailendraraj (259)
• India
12 Feb 08
you seems to be quite understanding and patient with your relationship and yoou want it to work.. really i wish your partner never cheats on you.. may god bless you.
mich_23
@mich_23 (120)
• Philippines
10 Feb 08
It's so difficult to be in this situation and for sure you would be hurt knowing that you were double timed. If you love and respect your partner there is no way for you to do this to him/her. There might be some reasons that you think led you to do this one but trust and loyalty is a very important factor to consider. Without this a relationship would surely fail. If this happens to me, I'll definitely leave him.
shailendraraj
@shailendraraj (259)
• India
12 Feb 08
rightly said.. and there's no point in continuing if this happens after all that you have given in return. Truly faith and loyalty are important.
celticeagle
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Jun 08
It depends on so many things. Is this the first time? Were you having trouble? Do you want to work on the marriage? Does he? Will he go to marriage counseling? Is it worth it? Are their children involved? How long have you been married? List the pros and cons. I would leave him. I figure if he can do it once, no matter what he says, he can do it again.