What to do?
By lynnchua
@lynnchua (3412)
Singapore
8 responses
@shootergirl78 (426)
• Canada
9 Feb 08
If my hubby was having an affair with my best I would lose my lid. I wouldn't be able to take it at all. I wouldn't be too forgiving either. I would be kicking hubby to the curb and my best friend would no longer be a best nothing. Its just not right!
2 people like this
@shijiaxin13 (66)
•
9 Feb 08
I will sick to my position as the two I trusted betrayed me at the same time,they have already considered what I would feel before they did the things,so forgive----no way
1 person likes this
@kiran1978 (4134)
• Australia
9 Feb 08
I could not forgive either my best friend or my partner. To me that would be the ultimate betrayal. How could you continue the relationship with your partner after he has cheated on you with your best friend. There is no way you could ever trust him and your best friend anywhere near each other again. Do not think the pain would go away, there would be no other option but to end the relationship.
2 people like this
@shijiaxin13 (66)
•
9 Feb 08
To me,I can't stand for the most important person betrays me as best friend and boyfriend.I won't forgive them forever.Maybe it will leave shadow,but I an't bear
@Azrael001 (16)
• New Zealand
9 Feb 08
MAN.....
To be honest, I will never ever forgive either my partner or my best friend.
It is just too painful that the two closest people that you most trust ever in your life cheat on you.
And of course it is impossible to forget the pain that they brought to you. It will make you never trust on a person again.
1 person likes this
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
9 Feb 08
It just means you lost both your best friend and your partner. its time to move on and find a new friend you can rely on. It is hard to accept if your best friend whom you should trust is the one that betrays you. It happens and what you could do is to try to find a replacement. But if you are that forgiving type of a person there is nothing wrong forgiving them and accepting them. Just don't put your full trust in them as they have once betrayed you it may happen again if you will try to accept them again in your life.
@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
9 Feb 08
I would dump them both. Then when the ex partner comes back looking for forgiveness (you don't know what you have until you loose it) I would send her back to my ex best friend.
1 person likes this
@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
9 Feb 08
I would not talk with him for a very long time and if we did talk again I would never trust him like before. What kind of brother would do something like that - not a good one.
1 person likes this
@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
9 Feb 08
I have to say that betray is a very serious sin. If it happens between your best friend and your partner, it's worse. I won't forgive them forever. As they are important people to me. How they can betray me and hurt me like this. A true friend won't do so, and a good partner will never betray you, too.
@quawertz (777)
• Philippines
18 Feb 08
In my opinion call it quits with the guy. Your best friend is not really a good friend or is not really a friend at all. If she is a real friend to you she shouldn't have flirted with your guy and she should have distance herself with the guy if he is showing motives of liking her. Well for the guy, he is not worth it. Dump him as soon as possible. You deserve better.
