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That's super interesting. I like the way you look at things. But you must be in my lot hell- LOL or having a great time. It depends on how you look at it. I was mainly thinking with this quote and maybe I should have said this in this post...about spilling your soul about something that maybe you didn't think you were that passionate about but it turned out if you read what you wrote you discovered you were. Here's an example: politics- what I thought was a hopeless issue for me- when I explained my stance to musicman and read through the mail before I sent it, I thought wow it sounds like I'm pretty passionate about something that I didn't think I cared about. He even commented back about that and said the same thing. See where I'm coming from?

LOL- I like your opinion on it..I also like the fact that you have conviction and stand up for it no matter what. You want to take this class for me I'm kind of strapped for time- LOL. :)

I'm with you and my heart goes out to you about that relationship. I hope that he can work through this disease that he has and you guys really get down to that love that I venture to say is there. At least I can tell on your end how torn you are but that demon- booze. I'm also really glad that you know yourself that well. Many people can't say that. Have a great night and very good luck on that relationship. Thanks for the comment.

Thanks for the sweet comments. I actually saw him last night too. And the perfect song was playing on the tv at his house. The chorus was bad bad bad bad boys, they make you feel so good. It sounds kinda gross, but I am sure most people know what I am saying. Can't help the attraction. And it isn't that he's a bad boy really, just has problems. But I won't desert him.

Thank you. My mom asked me that summer when we got back together if I was ready to quit drinking to support him. That was when he had quit for about months. I said yes in a heartbeat. I would do anything to have him. The whole him, not the half of him I get now. Now I'm gonna start crying. It's so sad. I know what he can be and what he really is all about. I don't just see the drunk everyone else does. He tells me that he only sleeps good when he is with me. When I dated him when I was 21, people would ask me who I was seeing and I would tell them I have a boyfriend, but I am not going to tell you who b/c I don't want to hear what you have to say. I didn't care what other people thought and I didn't feel the need to defend him. I know what I need to know and that's that. Why does this situation have to be so sad? I am trying so hard to implement the secret into my life. And since I have started trying that I have been hearing from him more often. I am making a vision board today and am going to put his pic on it with words like sober all around it. Hopefully I can help him that way. I won't force him, but I would be so happy if he could make it through this.

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It makes total sense and is true- you either change your mind after some thought or as you said it solidifies your stance. Great answer! Thanks for coming by.

Perfectly stated and very true- everything you said here I have been experiencing lately and I have to say I have never been more clear on some subjects as Iam right now. People really do seem to view us different than we view ourselves especially when we let them in to those deeper layers. That outer shell can be decieving. Thanks very much for stopping by and sharing your wonderful response.

Thank you for best response, I was quite surprised considering all the good responses here.

Your response just struck me right after I read it I love all my responses always but this one stuck with me! :)

I like chaps my a*s, too! You can add that one to your bad mood repertoire...:)

That's a great thing to do and if you find something wrong it lets you in on being able to change. Thanks for the comment