Married men having virtual wives on a internet game.
@sirensanssmile (3764)
Netherlands
February 10, 2008 1:11am CST
I play Second Life, and pretty much this is why I hadn't been on here in a bit.
The thing about it that disturbs me a bit is the number of married men who enter into relationships in the game. Glancing around and various profiles to see that someone is "married" in the game but you read their real life bit and see they are married in real life and this isnt the person they are married to in the game....
Same goes with guys that are constantly trying to pick up on me. Read into the profile and they have a wife and children at home.
One of these men had only told me he had children in RL which doesn't really mean anything status wise. Then he sends me a RL picture.... and what is that shiny gold band on the left ring finger? Perhaps he forgot about that.
Anyway I was wondering, isn't it cheating in some way?
I mean sure there is no physical contact.... unless they want to meet in RL but just the idea of sharing intamcy even online, to me feels like cheating and I wanted nothing to do with that guy from that point on.
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@WhatsHerName (2716)
• United States
3 Mar 08
I think it's cheating, especially if they try to hide the fact that they are married. That means to me that their intentions are to take it a step farther if they can.
I'd tell that guy to move along as I know you probably have.
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@plumwish07 (4057)
• Indonesia
26 Feb 08
hm, its difficult to give comment about this matter since i like to play life simulation as like the sims and wanna know more about second life. honestly, playing game like that its really interesting cause we can set up our life as like what we want without any unpredictable moment happened. thats really dream, right? :P
people who playing this kind game, in my opinion, should be able to realize thats only happened in unreal world. by practicing their skill on unreal world, they should be able to do any improvement in their life at this moment