My relationship*

Hello dear, First I want to know the thickness of your friendship or whether both of you in love with each other. Because in many cases, parents will object our friendship with boys / girls, if it seems to have other shape like love / marriage. Friendship is a ocean. Anybody can have it and enjoy it. True friendships will not be broke up by parents / others. Only if in case they feel, those relations may effect to their children's future. Just think of it and decide. If you are in love with him and his mother have a doubt on it, then there may be a strong reason that she thinks to split you people. Try to know the reason and explain her about you and your friendship. For example, is she is worried that her son may neglect his mother, when he is with you or not taking care about his mother after having friendship with you, try to convince your boy to behave as he was i.e. before having relation with you and suggest him to convince his mother about your relationship. Regards.

I've known that you are 18 now.Maybe his mother considers that you are just a child as well.Can two children have a perfect love?of course you can.But if we stand in the possition of our mothers,they won't let their child to have this risk.maybe later his mum will work out your way.

Oh.. Its simply his mother is feeling kinds insecure. Firstly check on your boyfriend if he is giving an over attention to you. Its very commom boys normally forget about their family when they fall in love. I would never want my boyfriend to forget the whole world and love me..!! I belive that "love" is one Part of life its isn't the whole life.SO you cannot forget the ones who loves you.. your family who always cares for you!!! and will always be there for you. YOu have certain duties towards them too. YOu must check it if your boyfriend is neglecting his family may be because of you or some other reason. And as he is the only child of his parents then its obvious his mother will feel neglected..!! So next time take care about. Let him be with his family for some time too.I am sure you don't like any one to be slave of yours!! If you do then ahem.. its not good!! :)

She can't let go of her little boy. It's sad, but true. The thing is that if he starts to listen to her it could really affect your relationship. I think that the two of you need to sit down and talk about things and see what he is thinking or if he's starting to think about what his mother is saying. His mother needs to realize that the two of you care about each other deeply and that she needs to let go of her little boy and let him be a man. It says in the Bible, that the man must leave his mother. If he chooses to listen to her, it's not gonna work. Just talk things through and keep us posted. I'll be praying for you. Good luck and God bless

Sounds to me like she still sees him as her little boy and can't accept that he has grown up and has chosen to have a loving relationship with you, being the only child doesn't help because she seems to resent more the attention he gives you. Try not to let it affect your relationship. I do not know his age but does she have the right to forbid him to see you and I have found in the past that if you forbid someone it makes them even more determined to do the thing you don't want them too so he will be more likely to want to be with you. Hope this helped a bit. Ellie :)