If time is reversed 1 year, what decisions would you change?

I'm glad that you are very positive and putting you, God, your family and society first. But when we are young we do keep changing until we find a path we would be comfortable and content with. When we are young we learn and keep learning and in the process, we kept changing to suit ourselves, family and society. We learn that things we did were childish and improve and change. Its different with you at your age, Tarachand - I'm sure you have achieved what you want to achieve and built strong forces and energy for yourself and your family. You are able to handle yourself well and maintained good rapport with your aquaintance, while we are still struggling and still learning. We learn from your responds and from the rest here, from books and workmates, young and the old. We imitate if we need to and emulate if we have to until we became better and successful human beings just like you. I thank you for your comment and the lessons I learned from you. Please continue to write to me and exchange yet more views and opinions and do correct me if I'm wrong - it would be a great pleasure.

I was young too like you once and have erred quite often, but those errors have thought me a lesson, maybe I ended up paying a far lower price because of those errors at a young age than I would now at a much older age? I like to think positive, and am willing to help in any way I can any person within the scope of my intelligence and knowledge. There are a lot of learnings that I/we all can have from you youngtsers too. Isn't a lot of learning about life just accumultion, refining of knowledge passed down over the centuries? Younger people have experiences that could teach older ones a lot. I wish you all the best in life!

Urghhh....please, for me change that picture. Its too gory for me, please? To answer your question, I am grateful that life has been treating me very well so far. I lost my best friend to cancer but I cannot regret the will of God. Each of us will be tested and we need to always follow the right path and I'm glad I have God, parents, brother, relatives and great friends who are always there to guide me. I make mistakes too and are very mischievious too, get so inquisitive, curious and hurt people too during the whole process called learning. I do regret them but always quickly make amends so it would not be prolonged. I don't know, I still have many more years to go, God willing. I wanted to change my job, only because there are no more opportunities to upgrade myself. Too long now eh? Goodluck and thank you....please change that picture....?

Way to go Khassandra2006! At least you remained good friends. Why don't you try proposing again then. Who knows this time it could be better and everlasting. People do change, you know. All the best. (Honetsly, I'm beginning to feel like a psychaitrist or a grandma now. Hmmm.....???).

You are right too KrauseHome. Each time we go through difficulties or another test from God, we felt like that is the end of the world but looking back, we actually always managed to pull through. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us.

They say, there are many birds in the sky, fishes in the sea and flowers in the garden. Maybe we ought to learn where it went wrong and start improving? I don't know my fate either, so we all may face something, somehow - we never know what lies ahead. Goodluck.

Thank you for your response. I am curious to know more, but I guess, I better not, eh?

Try solving one thing at a time, then. Its better to do something than none at all and accumulate and carry forward, on and on. Or try not to repeat the stuff you think you shouldn't have done, etc. I can only suggest. Thank you for your response.

Good for you and don't go too far back, will you? Let it rest and make the most of today and the future. Thank you for responding.

I understand. I hate moving too and having to make new friends, getting to know your surroundings, roads and neghbours and wanting to be understood and accepted is a huge effort. Needs alot of patience and toleration. Poor you. I hope you're ok, now. Mu mum always said to trust God's judgement - there's always something good hidden behind it all. I don't know....Thank you SBeauty and good luck!

Its not about who you are but what you would have liked to change if time is reveresed to a year ago, my dear sister. Thank you anyway and I'm glad that your husband is back.

I agree. Everything happen for a reason and we learn from it. My dad used to say that even if we live to be a 100, we would still be learning and improving. Thank you for responding.

Thank you Tusharb.

I'm sorry. My cousin just got married 3 months and he beat her up crazy a week ago. Now she has 11 stitches on her forehead and he gets a restraining order to stay away from her. The idea of marriage is scary to me now. Cheer up dear - at least you can say good riddance to him and look forward to a better future. Remember, everyone will have their time and he would have his. You just concentrate on getting it over and make sure you work on being happier and better than he is right now. Be with friends - they do have the best shoulders to cry on. Takecare, God bless, and best of luck. you can write to me whenever you like and I will add you in as my friend, ok? Do I sound like a grandma already?

Please read my question again. Thank you for responding.

Never too late Eric...you can still say sorry now. Thank you for your response and goodluck!.