Do you believe in Love at First Sight?

Philippines
February 10, 2008 8:09pm CST
I've talk with some of my Male Friends... They prefer GOOD PHYSICAL APPEARANCE in choosing a GIRLFRIEND... And most of them, told me that they're fall in love when they see a Hot & Pretty babe... do you think this is possible?
7 responses
@aaanusha (17)
• India
11 Feb 08
love at first sight....... wow.... so romantic to hear.... but the thing is i have mostly seen it becoming succesful in reel lfe and not real life... love at first sight in this real blood flesh world is very often confussed by many as crush or lets better say... crush is confused with love at first sight... u can never fall in love with someone becoz of physical or outer appearence.. becoz as we say beauty is skindeep only and wont do any good in the long run.. so if a person is attracted towards someone becoz of auch reasons that can never be termed as true love..
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@santau (223)
• United States
11 Feb 08
I think your male friends are mistaking lust for love. It takes time to love someone. In order to truly love someone you have to know them. When I met my husband I knew something was special about him but, no, I did not fall in love with him at first sight. No one I have ever known has fallen in love with someone at first sight. I get to know my husband more and more everyday and I love him more and more everyday.
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@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
11 Feb 08
Love @ first Sight.. Well it seems to be quite romantic and thrilling at the first instant when you hear these words.. But when u overlook the consequences.. that never work.. Infact what i think is .. Love at first sight is more of fluctuation . and seriously telling about myself .. i tend to fall in love every now and then when i see a new hot and sexy girl..so it cant be love.. Anyway for people who belive that they fell in love at first sight and that they truly belive that it is love.. i wish them luck in their love life.. For people to fell in love i belive.. only looks doesn't matter.. well i have a different story of mine but that need not be mentionjed over here.Unless people can't know each other well ..know abt their likes and dislikes.. spend time with their mates..how can they think of spending their life with that person..
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
12 Feb 08
Hi there wenzy2010! I don't believe in love at first sight. I think that it can be called attraction, or crush, or admiration if it is solely based on physical features. Maybe your friends are just using the phrase "falling in love" as an expression and doesn't mean the phrase's real meaning. In choosing a girlfriend or a boyfriend, some may base on the physical looks but without anything to support that, like intelligence or humor, or being fun to be with or sweet, I don't think that any relationship would work.
@kymommy72 (588)
• United States
11 Feb 08
No, I don't think Love at first site is possible. To me you have to know a person to truly love them. You have to know thier good points and bad points. You can't get that from a 10 second glance...now lust at first site is a different thing, I do believe in that...but not love
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• Indonesia
11 Feb 08
yes, I believe it. Love at first sight, unique and classic but It's happened to us most of us. but it's a real love or fake we know it when we learn her heart deeply. Phisically is the one of attractive sides with the behaviour, the charms, smile, their talking, voices, acting daily . All combine and we love her or not.
@madlees (1377)
• India
11 Feb 08
Hi, Love at first sight happens but to a very few people. It is so sacred and beautiful. But what your frioends mean is lust at first night. They have got themselves confused about the feelings. Love and lust are different. Love does not fade soon, it stays for ever with you and gets deeper and deeper but lust fades off once you have had it. It is just an impulsive emotion you get till you get that into your hands.