Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back

No, it is not possible for me to love someone, who does not love me. Love involves two persons and their emotions and one sided love cannot be called love.

I had this happen to me. I loved him with all of my heart, and he would sometimes say he loved me, but never actually acted like he did. I think personally that to him, I was just someone to be with until he was tired of me. I was the one who broke it off, because I was tired of him stringing me along and I was interested in someone else. I was friends with the other guy, when I broke it off. I am now married to the other guy. I am glad that I decided to date my husband when I did. The reason being, is because if I had stayed with my ex, then we would most likely be in an on-off relationship like we were. He thought he was hot and god's gift to women, when really he wasn't that great.

Well, it would depend. If we are just friends then its fine with me to love him on my own... and hope and wait that someone will come along and love me. But, if we are having a relationship... then its another story. You cannot be happy in a relationship the fact that you know that he does not love you back. Its better to talk about it and decide.

it seems u had loved someone dearly and could not get the love in return.... tats very sad but the thing is love cannot be forced on someone.. it is a automatic feeling which should come from within ... it is never right on our part to force our love on someone and then expect him to love u back... but that doesnot really mean that u should stop loving him... if u are reaal srong then continue loving him more each passing day... WHO KNOWS WHEN A MIRACLE WOULD TAKE PLACE.. may be some day he would understand ur deep and true love nd reciprocate it... DONT LOOSE HEART... all the best . and no one i believe would be satisfied by loving just somebody....

Hi nanayangel, let me tell you something, ONLY EXPECTATIONS LEEDS TO DISAPPOINTMENTS. so when you do someting expecting something in return for example love, affection, care, etc etc.... you will always end up in disappointments, & hurts,, just do your will & your part in life, no matter what you get in return, & see you will never be hurt by any one, no matter what the relationships are, when you know somw one doesnot love you, just pause back & think what are the things that the other person likes, & did you do things that were pleasing him/her, or just was doing things which you liked to do??? so there are several reasons that are countable, dont just hold on to the past, keep looking to your future, & there will be days, when they will know that they have lost a precious diamond when they had it in their hand, Nothing is too late as well, just be happy that your loved one is happy somewhere with some one.. if not you, & one day he will be back, sometimes situation also play a mighty role in life, so be still, & wish them good luck.

My dear freind, I had an experience like this. In college days i was fall in love with one of my junior. we used to talk hours a day in different subjects. Her way of talking and behaviour shows that she fall in love with me. When i became serious ask her about this then she suudenly told me that, no dear you are like my brother, who passed away in her school times. Her face become red and eyes was filled with tears. She just take her bag and hit me in desperation. I realised her feelings now also, after fifteen years, we good freinds like anything. When i am sitting alone i just think about my foolishness to tell her that day "I Love You"

I had this happen to me. I loved him with all of my heart, and he would sometimes say he loved me, but never actually acted like he did. I think personally that to him, I was just someone to be with until he was tired of me. I was the one who broke it off, because I was tired of him stringing me along and I was interested in someone else. I was friends with the other guy, when I broke it off. I am now married to the other guy. I am glad that I decided to date my husband when I did. The reason being, is because if I had stayed with my ex, then we would most likely be in an on-off relationship like we were. He thought he was hot and god's gift to women, when really he wasn't that great.

Hello nanayangel,The answer of your question is actually very easy ifyou can make yourself easy just think from a little different angle, if someone dont loves you back there could be three causes, firstly he do not know to reciprocate, secondly his love was never real or based on infatuations only and finally he is not eligible to get your love and he is missing it.If someone wants to love somebody mentally without any expectations and desire to get reciprocated, then its upto him/her however succesful love in real life always have to be both sided reciprocated equally and finally if you can ever able to understand that someone is faking or pretending his/her love, just stay away from that person you have to suffer later,our world is beautiful and God is great and I am sure he has made atleast one compatable match for all of us and all youhave to do is to search for the right person with whom you can spend your entire life with a deep friendly relation. I might be wrong but this is my understanding till now. Thanks.

When I was 17, I thought I loved this boy at school. I had it bad. I just couldn't get enough of him. I would do anything he suggested just to be with him. It took a long time of my friends telling me that he was using me before I would believe it. It was hard to break my habit of adoring him. I am not sure who was more surprised, him or me. I need to be loved back definitely. If the feeling isn't reciprocated, it will just die slowly.

there was someone who pretended to love me. But actually he was cheating a lot.He was actually taking advantages of me . Later i found out this. he used to say words of love when i was in the same city but a bad cheat he was.

There was a time when I loved someone who didn't love me back. Or at least not the way that I wanted or expected him to. Sometimes, people think it's okay to have loved and never have been loved back. But you see, loving is a very good feeling. Sometimes, because the feeling is so good, we don't mind whether they love us back at all. Of course it is different when you love someone who doesn't love you back and you insist and throw yourself into that person. ;)

I have had relationships where the other party stopped loving me but all of them were open about it as it was something that we always establish - that both parties should be open to each other about our thoughts and stuff. More than anything on loving each other, if the relationship wasn't going anywhere or working out, then the right decision was to go our separate ways.

I was crazy in love but my life had to be on the line for me to trealize she did'nt love me back. I met her for new years 2005 in Peru. She moved to NY and everything was fine. Then she wanted to move to Miami so I followed her. Then my life changed I was in a car accident and in a coma for 3 months. My family and my best friend told me that she came to see me 2 times that Iwas in the hospital. I went to rehab And i would call her and she wanted me to marry her for her papers. Now I realize that I thank god for what happened to me it made me realize who is really there for me.

yes,i experienced like that but i dont care now,that was only in the beggining

oh yes, I love a man for years that did not love me back, it was hard and it was painful, and then one day I just let go and began to live my life and put him behind me.

you might say i thought i fell in love with someone who didn't love me. it's just a phase in my life, my rebellious stage. have regrets but am happy with the product, my daughter. during my early years in college i am satisfied with loving someone and not loving back. i'm satisfied with just being with him most of the time. but as i matured and grew older, i've realized that it's better to love someone who loves you that just a one-way traffic relationship.

Hi nanayangel, I've loved others who didn't quite love me as much as I loved them, no matter how much they said they loved me. It's how they treat you, not just what they say. I definitely feel that my most recent failed relationships dealt with the guy just wanting to have someone around...when it was convenient for him. It actually takes me a little while after realizing that I'm not his top priority to finally give the relationship the boot. I go through stages of wondering what's possibly wrong with me! But eventually I grow tired of the same old bs and start looking for something or someone else to make me happy. You can't make someone love you and it shouldn't be a huge effort for the other person to love you.

Yes I have loved someone who doesn't love me and still do love them. I have stuck by his side for 4 years now and he has put me threw hell but I haven't stopped loving him. Don't ask me why but I just still hope for the best. Me and him are just friends with benefits but he knows I love him but thats as far as it has gone.

I've been through this kind of feeling before...Actually,I'm not sure if that person didn't love me back.I just felt it and it was a hard feeling for me to take.It made me feel worthless and useless.I think he did love me but that love didn't stay for too long and very shallow,that is why he found it easy to leave me behind.But,all of those memories are now in the pas because I've already found someone who gives me the love and affection I want and need...

I think it happened to me or maybe to everyone. Cause that's the process to find the one that we love and he/she love to, I mean love each other. That's the process. So when you feel like that, you should realize that maybe that's not your truly love, not your destiny. So never take someone that you love him but he doesn't love you at all. You must think you're heart, you're girl so better for you to live with love not only your desire.