Should she forget about him n move on or what?

February 11, 2008 4:27am CST
My best friend's boyfriend broke up with her because he said that he is not ready for a relationship.But he told her that she is a very nice girl and when ever he is ready he is gonna go back to her.My friend surpects that he is seening else,someone older than her.What do u guys thing should she wait for him or move on with her life but one thing i know for sure is that she is crazy about him.
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@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
23 Feb 08
Just let him go. If he really loves your friend, he will call it quits on the first place. The love has gone already. No need to hope. But move on. And find someone else. Who could equate your friend's love.
• United States
17 Feb 08
Your friend needs to move on. He isn't worth the time that she takes to think about him. She may be crazy about him now, but if she waits for him, (as if he cares) she'll probably end up kicking herself. Best of luck to you and your friend. All you can do is try to be supportive of her decision. Keep us posted.
11 Feb 08
She can't put her life on hold waiting for him to come around, that's just crazy. She needs to concentrate on the good things about being single, like hanging out with friends and not having to think about him all the time. She could take up a new hobby or learn a new skill, try to turn her enforced single status into a positive experience. Who knows, one day he might come crawling back and she might not even want him anymore because she's having such a good time without him.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
16 Feb 08
Time to move on. If he is not ready to commit to their relationship then why should she wait around for him? It's his loss not hers, so if I were her, I would move on. Plenty more fishes in the sea so they say!
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
16 Feb 08
Like the rest, I think she should move on with her live. That no point to wait for someone who doesn't love her and she is not a spare tyre.
• United States
11 Feb 08
i agree with everyone. she really should move on, i know harder done than said. she'll be crazy to wait around for some loser guy, specially if he's seeing someone else. moving on is hard. .. i had to do this recently. im still not all the way over my ex. but its for my own good that i move on, onone can live in the past.
@sephrenia (567)
11 Feb 08
I think your friend would be insane to wait for this guy to be honest. It sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it. He wants to play the field, see how many girls he can get and then go back to your friend if she's daft enough to wait at home like a puppy dog for him. I would tell your friend to kick this guy to the kerb and find someone who will love and respect her, not treat her like a piece of dirt.
@mitchz (131)
• Sweden
11 Feb 08
meaning she is marter