First love never dies?
By kornflakes
@kornflakes (298)
Philippines
February 11, 2008 7:35am CST
The title does sound corny to me. I'm in love and soo corny,anyway.
Does anyone believe in that, "First love never dies," line that we all took out from a song or movie?
For about five years I'm in love with the same person, who NEVER took his eyes on me. Back then, I wasn't even sure I could differentiate love from infatuation. What, basically, is the difference between the two?
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5 responses
@blademaiden (734)
• Romania
5 Mar 08
First love may never die, but it can wander off. Things change and people change and people drift apart. The old feelings may still remain.
@kornflakes (298)
• Philippines
12 Apr 08
True and very inspiring. Sometimes, when we reminisce the moments, it makes us feel loved. Special. Important. Even if people do change, you cannot deny the fact that once you were in love or you had feelings for this person, which often makes them special for you as well.
@Summer75 (5)
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11 Apr 08
I believe so. I fell in love with a gy the first time I saw him when I was 13 until I reached 18. He courted me when I was 16 but am not ready to have a relationship though I know I was deeply in love with him. Now, having a happy married life, he remained very special in my heart. There is a part of him that has always been attached in me all these years. And I know his memories will forever remain in one corner of heart - forever.
@darzhan4ever (52)
• India
11 Feb 08
Its true that in our life many galz might have gone through but the first love always keep some sentiments and love in our mind i too have the sme feel i cant neve ever forget ma first love she is really really special
@kornflakes (298)
• Philippines
14 Apr 08
True. It's good to know that some male specimen would also think "first love" is special. Nowadays, relationships are taken for granted. It's really a positive thing that male get to be as sentimental as females.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
18 Apr 08
i guess this is true. the truth is i never had a relationship with my "first love"... we sort of started out as friends, text buddies, and remained at that... i mean... he was always special to me and i to him.. he said things and do things for me that i felt was so special i fell for him...
i had my first bf and second, but thought i would be able to leave them, maybe if my first love showed up and tell me he wanted me to be his love... he he
but now.. thinking about it, its over.. no more thoughts like that... i am happy and i have already moved on... i am happy now with my life and love.
@kornflakes (298)
• Philippines
19 Apr 08
True. But don't you agree, too, that it's really nice to look back? I mean, it's really something to treasure, this first love thing. It's like something that makes us feel vulnerable or young again, you know.
Thanks for sharing. The discussion becomes thoroughly enticing each time I read it. =]
@Flel57 (1)
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2 May 08
I was amazed reading this discussion. I also have my own share of memorable experience with my first love who did not became my boyfriend. I was the first one who fell for him but it came to a point that he also courted me and I know he really fell in love with me too. This first love of mine has immature traits that any girl can be turned off and he has given me so much pain before, but I don't know why he remained so special to me. I have a happy life and a loving husband but I know in my heart I will never forget him. But of course it is not love anymore. What's left are just memories which will be forever be treasured.
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
23 Jan 09
I think is a grown up infatuation. When i was a kid i thought i was in love when in fact i was just infatuated. My admiration for that girl has lost and i don't care much about it anymore. I had 6 girlfriends but i don't consider my first girlfriend as my first love because the girlfriends i had after her were more intense in terms of degree in love. So i say my first love is my second girlfriend. She's married now though so i guess it's slowly dying.
