are you happy with your relationship right now?
By mitchz
@mitchz (131)
Sweden
February 11, 2008 8:42am CST
are you or you are pretending that you are happy even you are unhappy with your partner
6 responses
@acastrod (47)
• Spain
12 Feb 08
I am happy with my relationship right now and forever. I think I choose my perfect partner, my soulmate =)
I´ve always admired him... He moved me, he´s so inocent and childish...that I feel I have to look after him.
He´s the one I had always dreamt of,...
I realize all arguments we have..finally, they´re solved..´cause we love each other so much.. =( ...But suffering is something human.. its impossible doesn´t feel it sometimes..when you love a lot..
And you?
Regards!^^
@tantal25 (838)
• United States
12 Feb 08
Me and my hubby don't pretend since we are really happy with our relationship right now even if its a long distance. I am thankful to have this kind of relationship, coz we were both happy, contented and in peace. Yes, we have our ups and downs, but we are still intact up till now.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
11 Feb 08
Relationships are not like changing a shirt. Both the parties should strive hard to maintain the relationship. Happiness will not come by itself, unless both of them work hard in their real life, be sincere to each other, respect each others sentiments. Give and take principles help a lot to have a lasting relatinship.
Jokingly speaking, is there any happiness. One is yet to be born to have hapines in total!!
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
11 Feb 08
If you are pretending, then you should stop the relationship before it hurts you and your partner at last.
If you don't want, try to be frankly to your partner. Never only show good side of yours by sacrificing your rights. When you do, (take times), tell her/him and convince that you are yourself. And not in pretending with her. If he/she feels bad about your bad side, convince them, if they can't accept, you may consider back your relationship with him/her.
@lesliexious (17)
• Philippines
11 Feb 08
In a relationship, it is hard to pretend to be happy even if you are not. you are being unfair with yourself and to your partner as well. though it's difficult to say that you're not happy with the relationship anymore but you have to. you better talk it out with your partner the maybe you can work things out.