What is the first thing that attracts you to a new love?

I am attracted to a man that has intelligence and that is to take part in interesting conversations. He must be a caring person with a good sense of humor. His voice must sound nice to listen to. I really like a man with brown or red hair. I love curly hair in particular. I like blue or green eyes most of all. I am 5ft 7ins so I like quite a tall man. I like a clean shaved face.

The most important thing for me in a guy is Cincerity. (I am not so sure I spelled that right.) If I guy isn't Cincere then nothing else matters. But, another thing, kind of shallow, is teeth. I love a man with a beautiful smile. They don't have to be perfectly straight, but they have to be clean, mostly white, and all there. I great smile will make me putty in your hands.

I think the first impression is his look. If his appearance is what I like, then he will be attractive to me. You know, if he is ugly, then perhaps I will lose the interest and may need longer time to get to know him much more.

For me...it's several things...odd ones at that...I am attracted to arms....how their arms look because I like it when they roll their long sleeves up just a little so I can see their wrists! LOL....I also like someone who listens when I talk and has a sense of humor....a good one!

Physically, I am most attracted to tall (5'10" and up, as I'm 5'10") white men with brown hair. A goatee makes him even more attractive (I also really like that bald look with a goatee). His voice must be soothing to me as well. Lower pitched voices make me melt. Then there's what REALLY matters... .mental stimulation. If conversation cannot be kept on the ball, and witty, and sarcastic, and informative, and intelligent, and even sometimes so randomly silly and out there, then I will lose my interest very quickly. That has been my biggest issue when being in the dating scene within the last year. I have a hard time finding men I am both physically AND mentally attracted to. When I was younger, I was most attracted to guys who's hair was a bit longer (enough to grab onto), as tall or taller than me, with a larger build (b/c I'm that way too), and oh my! If I saw him in a pair of boxer shorts... I was in LUST! Pfft... who am I kidding? I STILL like that! haha!

The very first thing i look at on a guy, what is going to sound strange but its the Teeth!! if a man has really bad teeth i know i would not be able to kiss that person at all.lol i dont know what it is but bad teeth put me off. but the next thing would be their eyes and making sure they have a great sense of humor!!

The first thing that I usually look at is the eyes. It is how I get attracted to a guy physically. I have seen one of my friends so drunk before, and when they looked at me, it looked like they didn't have their soul anymore. That's how I found out that you can really see a lot through a person's eyes. All the emotions passing through them. That's the first thing I look at because you can learn a lot from just that. But when it comes to personality, I also like humor and wit. I want someone who can keep up with me. Someone who will argue when they know that they are right and I am wrong. Quick wit and sarcastic humor almost always does it for me.