how do i tell him that i like him without seeming so obvious?
@sunshineorrain (119)
United States
February 11, 2008 11:02pm CST
please tell me what do i say..
i've liked this guy for a while..and we are really good friends, but the only thing is i dont want to ruin a perfectly good friendship by possibly starting a relationship(or i mean letting him kno i want one with him) and then ruin our friendship by that awkwardness that follows.. should i jus leave us at friends and never know what could have been? or should i make and effort to see if he feels the same way about me and risk loosing a good friendship without the mushy drama?
1 response
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
12 Feb 08
Hi there sunshineorrain! Well, I think you have to decide first on which one do you value more. If you value the friendship more, and wouldn't wanna risk losing it, I think that you should just leave things as they are. But if you think that you "love" him already and you might regret it for the rest of your life if you let your chance pass, then you can let him feel that you like him. It's really hard to make him feel that especially if you're friends with him and guys can be really thick so I think telling him will be the only way.
