Relationships
@prettylady_55 (15)
Canada
February 12, 2008 2:38pm CST
I am happily married to start with. I have the biggest crush on a guy I work with. I have known him for many many years and he is now single. I find I dream about him regularly since he's become single. We are both guilty of flirting but in my mind I want more. An affair is not something I would do but I can't get this guy off my mind.
What to do??????????????
2 responses
@o2bfree (225)
• United States
12 Feb 08
Please please please think about the commitment you made to your husband, to honor and cherish him. Nothing good can come of this whether you act on it or not! Even with the thoughts in your head you are asking for trouble. It will cloud your judgement in your marriage. I say step back from that relationship as a whole and see what is missing in your marriage that is making you entertain this thought. Work on that in your marriage. Never look for greener pastures!!!!! NOTHING good will come of this! Keep your head straight pretty lady!
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@prettylady_55 (15)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
I remained friends with this guy. Nothing happened and it won't. We will remain friends and nothing more. Your response made absolute sense and I thank you for that. I would be a fool to ever leave my husband. I'm a lucky lady that's for sure. Thanks so much for your comment.
Pretty Lady!
@CheshireKat (564)
• United States
14 Feb 08
If you don't want an affair, don't have one.
It's rather simple. I know it sounds harsh, but I've been in your shoes with a boyfriend. If you don't want to cheat, then don't put yourself in a position where that could happen. I've lost a few close friends that were guys this way, but in the end I'm happy with the results.
@prettylady_55 (15)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
Thank you CheshireKat. We remained friends and left it at that. Thank you again for your comment.
