The so called "BEST FRIEND"

maybe sit down and ask him if there is nething going on between him and this really good women friend. i saw on t.v. a few nights ago that you can tell when someone lies because there forhead tightens up for a quick second so watch and see if it does and if he's lying. good luck!

I would be very concerned about this. Would he tolerate it if you had a man friend and did this? Go with him!!!!

Didn't you know about the relationship with the best friend before you married him?

First of all my husband he will not have a best friend for a female.What if you had a guy for a best friend? I wonder how he would feel if you guys meet in a bar or even anywhere for that matter.

everyone has at least one such friend. but if u do not feel ok with it as his wife, then make him understand how u feel about it. talk one on one with him and make him understand that its not as if u suspect him or anythin but u just don't feel right wit it.

leave him throw him out.

Frist if my husband was doing this and did not invite me with to visit the friend well then I might have to leave him. I would really question myself with this. Have you meet the women do you know her? Where did he meet her??? Does he tell you he is going and you are not allowed to go?? Ask him what she has you dont???

Don't want to be harsh here but I think you must face the facts unfortunately. A best friend is someone whom you confide in and share secrets with etc. Why does he not regard YOU as his best friend. Give him a choice, you or the best friend

I am married and one of my best friends is a man. Occassionally I go out with drinks with him alone when my hubby can't come and he trusts me. But when I do go out with my friend I always invite my husband too. Now my best friend has become one of his closest friends too and I love that. I enjoy sharing time with my husband and my friends all at once. Ask him why he doesn't want you around??

Trust your womanhood...trust that deep feeling in your gutt. A woman's WIFE. Should be her HUSBANDS best friend... ....Something smells fishy to me...?

Firstly, with evidences, I would explain the wrong things he is doing and give him a chance to correct himself. If he doesnot heed, I will stop entertaining him at home. Thirdly I would become independent to earn for family. Lastly I ignore I had a person known as "husband". While doing all these, he may come back.

ya i will question him....can you trust a man?talk to him face to face, and yes keep a tab on him..

I would certainly question this "friendship". The other woman knows he's a married man, so why isn't she insisting that he include you in their social plans. You and your husband need to have a long talk about this because I suspect they're more than friends.