Trying anothers approach....
By o2bfree
@o2bfree (225)
United States
February 12, 2008 4:36pm CST
Hey my name is Cheri, I am new here and would love to make more friends ; )
I am currently a single mother of four precious doll babies. Just have found a new job working for a chiropractor after being seperated and moving out 3 months ago. I am in the process of considering reconciliation in the marriage but you will see in my discussions posted it is and has been a long road to this decision. (still don't know what I am doing)
Anyhoo, enough about me...I am looking forward to making friends on here ; )
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5 responses
@marilynlynn (994)
• United States
13 Feb 08
Welcome, welcome, welcome! I sure hope things work out for you and your family. I'll pray for ya! :o)Glad to be your friend Cheri......
@Angelwhispers (8978)
• United States
12 Feb 08
Hi there o2bfree :)) Welcome to mylot. I think for the most part you are going to find people are here for the companionship and friendship above all else. Please Feel Free to have a look around my friends list, I have a very nice close nit group of friends and we all share each others laughter, joy, pain and sorrow. Add them to yours. You'll like them too I am sure.
~Tammi
@Angelwhispers (8978)
• United States
18 Feb 08
Wow thank you for the Best Response. look you are almost 100 posts already!
@cynicalandoutspoken (4725)
• United States
13 Feb 08
I never did welcome you to myLot. How very rude of me. Well, better late than never. Welcome to myLot Cheri!
Just call me Cyn, everyone else does. Even the people I know from this site in real life have started calling me Cyn so I guess it is fitting.
And remember if you ever need to vent I am just a message away.
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@novataylor (6570)
• United States
18 Feb 08
Cheri, I'm so sorry I haven't spoken with you yet. As you can see, I've been answering discussion after discussion, and frankly didn't even see this one till just now. This is a great place for making friends and finding people to talk to and just finding a lot to laugh at, too. Like Angel said, take a look at our friends list and you'll find a lot of like-minded people, who enjoy each other's company, and lots of laughs right here on the Lot. Be careful with the reconciliation, though, he's still the same person he was when you left him. Honestly, I haven't read your post about it, but if you're doing well now, and are getting things going on your own, then maybe you should try that for a while and see how it goes before you try to affect a reconciliation. You might find that you like it out there on your own. Maybe not, but you might. At least, give yourself a chance.
I'd like to bid you welcome, as some of my friends have done before me. Again, I'm sorry that I'm so slow to respond. No excuses, just sorry. I hope to see you again here and look forward to many fun times!
@o2bfree (225)
• United States
18 Feb 08
Nova,
Very nice to make your aquaintance! Thank you for the welcome and your comment ; )
I am enjoying mylot thus far, it has been nothing but a positive experience. I can see becoming close friends with many on here.
I also appreciate your advice on the reconciliation. As the days go by I realize what you said more and more that he is still the same person. The dynamics of the last 6 months are truly sad. But, yeah things are starting to come together for me and the children. It is "rough" no doubt! But, I am enjoying being my own person for once in my life. It is lonely at times, yet it seems these are the times when I search the depth of my being. Which is a good thing!
I took the time to read some of your discussions and thoroughly enjoyed the read. You seem to be quite the vivacious woman, thank you again for caring and sharing. I look forward to befriending you. Till next time~Cheri
