How do you know if he or she is your soul mate?
By Britelite
@Britelite (148)
Singapore
February 12, 2008 11:08pm CST
I always wonder how people can be certain that a particular he or she is their soul mate? What are the telling factors? If both of our Western and Chinese zodiac matches, does that make us a pair of soul mates? Does each person have only one soul mate or many soul mates scattered all over the world?
4 responses
@Britelite (148)
• Singapore
12 Mar 08
Thanks Piyajee! I checked out the site, and learn something about myself. Fairly accurate.
@AlwaysAskingWhy (96)
• United States
13 Feb 08
I think if the person loves you unconditionally, and is willing to make necessary sacrifices for you, then you've probably found your soulmate. There's a blog that deals with this very subject. It's http://howtochooseagoodspouse.blogspot.com
@nakitalikely3617 (453)
• United States
13 Feb 08
I believe that everyone has more than one soul mate. I believe that we as people have many but we choose to be with one of them. I just know that in my case he is the one because we have so much in common and aren't afraid to express our true feelings to one another. There isn't a certainty that in my case he is my soul mate but I believe that God has in his divine plan for us to be together. I mean we are the perfect pair and he was made for me to love if only for a hot moment. Either way it goes if we stay together or not I know that he was in my life for some sort of purpose. More and most likely to show me that I deserve better in life.
@Britelite (148)
• Singapore
13 Feb 08
I think you've brought out an important aspect on the soul mate issue. Besides everyone having more than one soul mate in this world, that a soul-mate relationship may or may not be one that is with you for life. Still, I would like to think that it will be for life...then it'll be really "fairy tale", like live happily ever after.
Love that concept, doesn't matter if it's practical or not.
@santau (223)
• United States
13 Feb 08
I find astrology interesting, but I wouldn't bet a relationship on their accuracy. If my husband and I went by our horoscopes we should have never gotten together because it is hopeless for us.
Except that for my husband and I it isn't hopeless. All I can say when you know someone is your soulmate is that you just know. I don't really know how else to explain it. But when he or she is the right one you will just know. I told my best friend this before she met her soulmate and she didn't believe me. But now she tells me i'm right lol.
Maybe someone better with words might be able to describe it a little better.
@Britelite (148)
• Singapore
13 Feb 08
I agree with what you said about determining factor being a "knowing-feeling". Sometimes, other factors just enter your mind to influence the emotional decision that that someone is your soul mate. For instance, I met this guy who has great personality and we see eye to eye on spirituality and many other things. There is a certain comfort-ease when we are together. But I wish the guy is a lot more ambitious in his career. That would mean some level of financial contribution to the household if we do get together. My concern is, if money becomes an issue in the future, would the idea of soul mate still holds?