• Golden Facts of Life:-When someone loves U, u don't realise it...When U realis
By cupid74
@cupid74 (11388)
Pakistan
11 responses
@aconites (768)
• United States
13 Feb 08
mmmm let me see
when someone loves you , you dont realise it .. thats wrong ,, i think that the girl always konw's who loves her cause it shows ..
when you realise i , its too late , thats maybe becouse your in love with someone els .. you wont see any one who loves you .. your lover is the oly one in your eyes
u always love the one who leaves you and leave the on who love you .. i think its because theres no relationships is stable and most of them don't last .. thats only my opinion
what's your opinion on the golden fact ?
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
14 Feb 08
Ha ha ha ha
what a practicle naration of the Golden fact, i like that
and that might be true
as its ur observation and might be based on fact
but what i want to see that u have ur freinds around u, theu care for u, love u but u dont realise how much u care and love them, its only realized when they left you or when they are gone. or u know they love u but u never know how much u love them back and ignored them as its in ur mind that they are here, around U, but once they are gone u feel what u r missing in ur life
Take care
and hope u get ur love and dont have any regret feeling
bye
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
13 Feb 08
hmmm...I'm thinking now. Actually from my experience....love is something that grows on you...You might love someone who leaves you..but then you realize that you can get over it and move on with life. It's not the end of the world. You might remember the love for a long time and enjoy the feeling...but even if it's too late and you realize that it's someone else you love....people are capable of taking it in their stride.
Actually lots of things are crossing my mind right now...and I've got lots of options. But what I said here is from MY experience.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
13 Feb 08
Hi SV. thanks for prompt and nice response
i do agree that Love is feeling which grow gradually. with passage of times characteristics/traits of other make u love him/her more
but its also fact that Life goes on. it never stops even after Megga destruction. Will to Live is so strong in human that carry him/her On. And other Thing, Time. time can pust ashes to all memories
I like and appreciate ur experience
Take care
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
17 Apr 08
wow...nice message! I do and I know it happens to some, but not me! hahahaha!It has been said that sometimes you feel like no one loves you and you try to look for love and you fail no notice around you, you are just looking far and tend to overlook it!and some due to hectic life and busy life, just take for granted the people who do take care and love them sincerely, they will only find out how important it is when its not there anymore!
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
20 Apr 08
hello cupid! for my friends, it happened sometimes that I am just very confident that they are there and due for some reason sometimes, take it for granted and realize later, that how much they mean when they are already far away!During my younger years though
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
19 Apr 08
Hi dear
how are u
whats going on
u just wrote in simple way the problem of this busy and hectic life
in this life we start getting things as granted
we just treat people as things around us
and only miss when they are no more with us
every one is important and must be treated accordinly
wish u all be best
take care
@mayka123 (16605)
• India
11 Jul 08
Hey...this is a very beautiful discussion you had started. I think I will agree with you that this is a very true fact. In my case the one whom I have loved have left me....
@ozzeth (940)
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
yeah i do agree! its already happened with me.
You know we can't blame our feelings..We have the right to express it even if you know there is no assurances with it. Love is so unfair sometimes but thats what life is..It doesn't mean when you love someone you are also expecting a return from that someone. Love is to give with no expectations any return..Thats a fact of life!
@vikrantkarning (42)
• India
22 Apr 08
Hi there! its Vikrant.Well said Ozzeth. I do agree with you. But I'm very lucky that I got married with the person to whom I love very much. Well for that I have to face lot of trouble, but you know when your partner supports u no body can stop u to be together forever.
Well, I'm really impress with your answer would u like to add me in your freinds list.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
22 Apr 08
What a nice thing, you have said! I feel, like all other human emotions love has to be nourished and it's equally important to respect the love we get from others. even when we do not actually love that person. We might not love a person but must respect his feelings in a similar manner we would want it to happen to us. And yes,. many times we kinda overlook the love from someone who is reachable and very near. we grope for distant, love which might turn out to be make-belief in the long run!
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
24 Apr 08
Cupid, you are so very right!! Charagh ke neeche andhera...very well put.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
22 Apr 08
hi mimpi
very nice response
that if wee cant love someone in return but atleast we should respect his /her feeling
very well said
And u r right, we ignore people near us and go for distant thing. which is not good
thats why its saying "Charagh ke neeche andhera"
i hope u understand
thanks for response
@touchnshine (2821)
• India
17 Feb 08
Hi cupid74
It's a very old saying and it's very true .. I agree with this totally .. but I am always with the one whom I love .. only the one I loved left me -- I am talking about my first boyfriend. He left me .. and I think he realized it later .. but when he realizes -- it was too late and I am happy that I am not with him .. because I am happy to be with my current boyfriend.
@mycharm88 (2288)
• Philippines
14 Feb 08
Hello dear c",) oh i had an experience on this one. It's my frist love whom i loved so much, i did my best that our relationship would last even if he's far away. You know, it's hard for me to maintain long distance relationship, it was the first time in 4 yrs that we'll be away from each other. I did what i can, and i he did a little, to make it work. I always thought that he's the one. But i was wrong, as the days, months, and year has passed i saw changes and felt that the love has gone cold for him. Until the time that i decided to set him free, but he didn't want to. Only then he realized how much he loved me, but he was too late.he tried to win me back and said that he could never live without me Duhhh! now i found a new love and had no regrets in the past... well, enough about me.lol!
Tell us something about you dear c",)
Happy hearts day!!!
@kiran1978 (4134)
• Australia
16 Apr 08
I think this golden fact is true and false. At certain times in my life it has been true. I did not realise how much i loved someone till the relationship was over. Then I wanted the relationship back and when we were back together I appreciated what we had alot more.
Today, this golden fact is false for me. I truly try and appreciate the love I have with my partner and I don't take it for granted. However unfortunately at times I think my partner does not always appreciate what we have and sometimes takes it for granted. I think he would realise though if it was gone.
I have learnt that life is too short and people around you need to know how much you love and appreciate them as you never know when your last moment on this Earth is. If I was to die tomorrow, I would be content knowing that my loved ones know how much I love them.