Anyone elses heart breaking at this very moment?

@o2bfree (225)
United States
February 13, 2008 11:20pm CST
Whats your story?
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@posham (1236)
• Philippines
14 Feb 08
well, i handed it to my friend and i told him to hold it for a while because i was trying to open the new safe i built (the combination was really tough to code, you know). he was looking at it and walked around the room for a while. but then my heart was uneasy and he lost grip.. so it broked.. there..
@o2bfree (225)
• United States
14 Feb 08
Very sad : ( yet poetic way to put it. Sending you big hugs to heal your heart!
@posham (1236)
• Philippines
15 Feb 08
hahaha.. yeah.. got a very nice forum going on here and i was actully inspired by it.. hehe. i used it in my blog.. i hope you don't mind.. hehe.. be the first one to comment, i'll be delighted if you do.. here's the link.. www.posham.blogspot.com
@posham (1236)
• Philippines
15 Feb 08
sorry, i forgot to specify it, it's the one with the "Happy Heart's day as a title".. the one with the image of the moon..
• Canada
15 Feb 08
Once upron a time I date this guy. We were young, he was immature. It did not work. I do not know how or why we started talking again but he has grown up. He listens to me, helps me and always manages to cheer me up. Before I knew it i was head over heals for him. Because it did not work the last time I refrained from telling him my new found feelings. Not long after I discovered these feelings I became aware that he has a girlfriend and has for a long time now. He loves her and I am happy for him but I can not get him out of my head. On valentines day he told me about the flowers he ahd bought her and i wanted to cry. Oh unrequitted love, how i loathe thee. Some day my prince will come, he was just given very bad directions and is a little lost right now.
@o2bfree (225)
• United States
15 Feb 08
Im so so sorry your pain! It is real and let it be real. In time your heart will open to another and you will have only good memories of the Love lost. Best Wishes to you Darlin~c
@kingcrapper (1536)
• United States
14 Feb 08
after six years of marriage my spouse had told me she no longer has any feelings for me. She told me she 'mentally separated' from me long time ago. I feel alone and afraid. Can a marriage go on with only one person in love? We are going to counseling but I want to do more...but there is nothing more I can do. With this news I can now feel that life is empty even with all the activity that is going on around me. Does anyone have any suggestions to get through this situation?
@o2bfree (225)
• United States
14 Feb 08
I am very sorry for your loneliness and fear. Very normal reaction, so don't even begin to beat yourself up for it. A marriage can not go on with only one person in love. Counseling will be a good first step to try and get to the bottom of what caused her to feel this way. I know all to well how you are feeling right now, I lived it for 2 1/2 years in a marriage, giving my all and receiving nothing. I finally broke down and seperated from him, only to have him come back and beg for me to see he had changed and could show me that he loved me. Anyhoo, long story and all of ours are different. I just want to encourage you that no matter what comes of this, the feeling of despair you and I both are experiencing right now will pass. I wish you the very best and pray you and your wife can find what you lost. Hugs~Cheri
• United States
14 Feb 08
yes, i am on a diet and it is valentines day and i can't eat chocolate or good food that is served in my party..at a local restaurnt..so i have to eat stuff that i am allowed..while i watch people eating and drinking and enjoying..but i did lose over 25 pounds..so that is good..i guess its good for the heart..and i wear pants that i could not fit in since 1994 ..lol
@o2bfree (225)
• United States
14 Feb 08
Dang that would be rough. I am proud of you though for sticking with it. You will have a major sense of accomplishment when you reach your goal. I wish you much encouragement!
• United States
15 Feb 08
i guess i have the saddest heart in this world now.. i dont know if i made the right choice to share this because i have kept this for my closest friend's sake..but im gonna share it anyway.. it has been for a while but i havent forgotten every single moment back then..time hasnt been good to me..i thought all i need was time..time to ease the pain..time to put back the pieces again..but it wasnt..i was wrong..ive been living each day yet it is somehow like living in the past...i shared smiles and laughs yet it wasnt enough..i thought new place to live can help..but still it wasnt...im thousand miles away yet it doesnt make any difference at all....i wasnt thinking anymore about it but in everything i do, it makes me remember..i tried to erase but it visits me every night like it always do..and then everytime i woke up, i smile..i smile because i see him again..its funny but i dont know why he keeps on showing in my dreams..and it keeps me missing him more..and more... the thought that my ex is now with my closest friend, makes me breakdown..and it keeps my heart on breaking..and everytime my closest friend and i communicate (which is most of the time) i just pretended like i know nothing..and when i feel like she's heading for him to talk about, i always changes the topic quickly...it hurts...they both dont know, i already knew everything.. i guess it hurts most because in the relationship of my ex and i, she's always in the middle...she's always with us whenever we go out but i never regretted to have her even at the most special moment *when i answer *yes* to my ex* ..and during those days, they were close...and i admit there are times i got jealous..it makes me think, why should it has to be her?! why not look for another girl?!..but despite for what happens now, i never hated her nor him...i have loved them so much that i wanted them to be happy..its better not to interrupt anymore...i lose the one i love and i will not let it happen again to lose another one, my closest friend... **i hope neither of them will read this..im sorry**
@o2bfree (225)
• United States
15 Feb 08
You speak with such strength! You must know that this is a matter of time for one day you WILL find true happiness, until then, hold your head up and kept the positive thought process you have in your mind. I am proud of you and what you stand for, such integrity! Love to you~Cheri