men are fools

I have someone who does anything for me. So I can say that it's lovely and dull at the same time. In the beginning it's really likeable, but if you feel that the person is becoming a slave (!!!) or something, it begins to get boring. I can't say I DON'T enjoy this, I would be a hipocrite if I said that. but honestly I say this is not good if exaggerating.

I can't be one of those women who takes advantage of a man. It's just not in me; my self conscience would get to me too much. I know this, because I recently had the opportunity to do so. I was dating a man who was crazy about me. He had money, he had a 4 bdrm home he owned, he had an excellent factory job with benefits, he had his own vehicle, he had zero dependants, etc. He was always wanting to buy me things and take me out and do me favours (help with repairs around the house, etc), and for ME that was a total turnoff, because I wasn't that into him. If I had a different personality type, I could have totally taken him for a ride. I could have continued to have him take me out and buy me things, etc, and just kept him wrapped around my finger. And now I can see how easily some women can do this. I am also glad that I am not one of "them".