Is there a difference between a married life and live together life?
By ganga472007
@ganga472007 (624)
India
    February 14, 2008 3:52am CST
                         
            Some people prefer married life as per their culture. There is a recent trend to live together with out marriage.Which is a good trend? How it will helpful to the people?
9 responses
         @doctorgenius (558)
 • India
                    4 Jun 08
                    Yeah..Its a new trend..Live In
Catchin up in the Westerns
Well.. I believe Marriage is MUCH MUCH BETTER.
Marriage is an institution..A commitment..A promise
Ofcourse there are divorces but then still..Its considered an Unbreakable Bond
Live in.. Its jz like a Bigger One Night Stand..You comee..Live together..No commitments..Nothin..N suddenly you can leave..Coz there weren't any bondings or anythin
Its jz crap i believe
                    @ganga472007 (624)
 • India
                            9 Oct 08
                                    
                            A long married life will give us peacefulness, satisfaction of fullfilling our commitments & completion of our duties to the next generation. Thanks for participation, doctor genius.
                             @rposta07 (240)
 • United States
                    2 Apr 08
                    Well, it is a solid commitment to your partner to get married. Or at least it should be. Plus, I am a Christian and a bit old-fashioned, so I personally don't believe it is right for me to live with someone before I am married. I am not trying to look down on those who do this, this is just for my personal situation.
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                     @naseefu (1607)
 • India
                    7 Apr 08
                    It is totally different that the married life and the together life.The trend cannot do any thing in this.In married life there is some resposibility to both husband and wife.But in together life ,what they want? there is no any responsibility.If one of them ready to live like this there may be a reason for that.If they get what they want their relation get brocken.Thanks ganga
                    @ganga472007 (624)
 • India
                            9 Oct 08
                                    
                            nadeefu, you have focused a true picture. Thanks for participation
                            @ganga472007 (624)
 • India
                            16 Mar 08
                                    
                            You have given the right answer. Marrige has a meaning. It can be proved by how you live for others and how many are benefitted by you. Instead of centering a single individual i.e. lover, spouse in the married life has as meaningful role. Thanks for responding.
                             @longbangod (1785)
 • Philippines
                    13 Apr 08
                    Yup there is. Though might be both an advantage or disadvantage.
Being raised from a relatively conservative and religious environment, I still go with living together under marriage. That way you are being blessed by God and would have a better way to go through, compared by just plainly living together. And of course for the children to be ligitimate also.
I strongly recommend, living in as married couple.
                     @titine00 (5)
 • United States
                    15 Feb 08
                    well divorce is so common now it almost turns one off marriage. I hate to think of spending all that money to get married only to get divorced and shell out more dough
                    @ganga472007 (624)
 • India
                            24 Feb 08
                                    
                            It is unfortunate to get divorce after spending money for marriage. Thanks for participation
                             @leeesa (884)
 • United States
                    14 Feb 08
                    Of course this is just my opinion, but in my experience, there is no difference. Maybe a piece of paper will make some people commit longer, but it's so easy to get divorced, that it seems even married people are often looking for something better.
I personally will never marry again, but would consider a long term live in situation if it felt right. But right now, I'm happy being single, living alone and doing my own thing. I think this is also a trend right now.
                    @ganga472007 (624)
 • India
                            15 Feb 08
                                    
                            Happiness is depend upon one's style of living
Thanks for the response.
                             @loudhummer14 (535)
 • Philippines
                    22 Feb 08
                    this is very interesting. i guess the only difference is the marriage certificate. but the job is still the same. both requires hard work to keep the love and the fire alive. marriage is just a piece of paper. that's the only difference. give your better half a grand wedding and later on when you realize you make the wrong decision ...it'll all end up in divorce or painful separation.
                    @ganga472007 (624)
 • India
                            24 Feb 08
                                    
                            Is Divorce quite common in your country too? Thanks for response.
                            
 
                             
                        
 
                    





