I hope to marry , but i don't know how to talk it with my lover

How long have you been seeing each other? Have you talked about marriage already? If he is a good man he will want to wait until he has a steady job and he knows he can support you. That may be what he's waiting on. He wants to make sure that he has a solid career before he asks you I would ask him if he wants to marry you then you will know. Don't rush anything you are very young. You should take the time to live your live have a career, travel before you think about settling down with someone. Take your time. You have plenty of time.

Well, in reality, you need to explore what his feelings are, because if you don't know, you don't know if he shares the same dreams and hopes with you , or he has other dreams and hopes that don't include you! So you need to touch base with him to see how he feels, most likely you'll be able to tell if he holds his ground, or scatters and runs!!

oh my dear friend ,please dare to tell him what you think and want .You know if you didn't talk anything to him ,how can he know your really thinking ? Best wishes for you !

I think that if you love the marriage is a good thing to carry out the projects. Perhaps your boy does not feel this need to create a family.... I believe that the only solution is take him the time....

I spport you .I think you are right. You should tell him directly that you want marry .Give him any press. When i young,my girl firend tell me that I should marry.So we married quiclkly. You can try. I belive you must succeed.