Is Sense of Humor really necessary for healthy relationships?
By sonica29
@sonica29 (4)
Philippines
February 15, 2008 1:20am CST
I'm dealing hardly with it. I have a girlfriend, she was pretty and very meek and i like it, but i know there's something lacking in her. She acts differently from time to time, as if a special child. And often, I didn't understand her in the way she talks, she thinks, and acts. Simply i'm longing for normal human response for every situations and a wholesome personality. Just like yesterday, i gave her my valentine's gift, she just look at it, and never say anything. I know we've different personality, she was meek and i am humorous person. Haaahhh! i hope u know what i feel.... And i guess SENSE OF HUMOR is a ingredient for colorful relationship???!!!!!!
2 responses
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
15 Feb 08
Indeed, having a sense of humor adds spice to a relationship. It helps to take away the stress and bridges gaps between the two of you, as it also removes the sense of being tense in certain occasions.
I guess you both should have a a one one one talk, sit down and tackle whatever differences or misunderstandings you both have. Besides, you also need to understand one another so you get to know more of one's short-comings..
@danzer (2723)
• Philippines
15 Feb 08
Before you have a relationship with her, did you bother to have a personality check? If you love her, you need to accept her being!
@sonica29 (4)
• Philippines
18 Feb 08
Thank u danzer! but do i need to do that. I always do self-reflection. Perhaps that's the second question, sometimes i know i loved her but sometimes its hard to tell. Sometimes I'm not happy being with her but sometimes I'm longing for her presence.
Often, i like to ask this!- Is being serious with a girl and in-loved with a girl are different.
