Who is more beautiful?

My husband and the father of my children (the same man!) are both beautiful people. Each has different qualities, so choosing one is way too hard.

Hi mimpi1911, I must say with proud that mother of my child is much beautiful than my wife. now she looks more caring and cautious about life and whole family. she looks to be more confident and happier than before. I always thanks to my wife who has given such a beautiful mother of my child.

A very good discussion, Mimpi. At the first glance it looked like a very tough question. But it took only a couple of seconds to realize that I find my child is thee most beautiful thing in the world to me. The reason is simple because I see my wife in every inch of her. She is the other form of my mother and wife combined in looks and affection. So it is so obvious that the creator is so proud to proclaim that his creation is the most beautiful

Certainly MOTHER of a child. The very word 'MOTHER' cover 'OTHER'(I mean relations)too for the child. Crowning glory is becoming motherhood and her face as well as hearts fill with joy right from the day she attains motherhood. Wife becomes MOTHER and she introduces the child as to who is the FATHER.

I'm not married and don't have children yet, but I got engaged on Valentine's Day so I'll be there soon, I'm sure! I love this discussion. It really puts a neat perspective on life. You've posed a great question. What is more attractive to me (as a wife and mother someday)? I think "husband" is wonderful. I haven't experienced it, but it'll be a great feeling calling the man I marry my "husband." It's been interesting enough getting used to calling him my fiance! (It's a great change, though!) I think later on in life, I will find that "the father of my children" will be the most attractive name for my husband. The "father" means he's their daddy and cares for them. He provides for his little ones and loves them. The "of MY children" tells that we're connected, united as one to raise our children. I don't know if that makes sense or not, but having children together and building a wonderful family is a dream of mine and such a beautiful thing. Thank you for posting such a great discussion. It's been something really fun to think about!

I'm not yet wife and mother, but I believe that the most beautiful emotion for a woman is become the mother of a child.

The chirping birds, the blossoming flower, the folowing water, the growing plants -- are all so beautiful, we hardly find time to appreciate it. Mother or wife is depends on various factors and in fact everyone looks beautiful when they speak from their heart!! If you just observe, you can make out such things and there is always a special grace on the face (glowing) when their heart, mind are clean. I had come across such beautiful people and I adore them, because everyone cannot get that. IT is a determined mind.

When I was married to the father of my children he was a much better father than husband. That's why now I find my second husband a much nicer and more attractive person than my children's father. Bet you didn't count on that answer.

well i guess ..if you love somebody you married that somebody which means his the most handsome guy you met..

Since I will Never be either or be with either this just an opinion from the outside, but I think Wife and Husband are more beautiful than Mother or Father. You can be parents and not be married. And if you marry for love, then that bond should be the foundation for what comes next.And besides there are Many married couples that will never have kids.

Very very interesting and pertinent discussion. My answer would be that mother of my children is more beautiful than (she)as a wife. As a mother she knows her responsibilities very well as far as bringing up the kids is concerned. She knows in her innerself - what are needs and desires of her kids. Right from the time kids were born. She knew what they require and what are their necessities. She knows it perfectly how to fulfill those needs. She knows how to show her affection and love for the kids either through making thier favourite dish or either through buying them goodies and clothes. She knows very well what are kids' demands for material things. She has a strong bond with the children, which may not be there with the partner, because she has given birth to her children, she has suffered pain and agony during pregnancy for them (Her husband was only a 'source' to achieve her motherhood). She is attached to her children because children have 'blood relation' with her. On the other hand, no such relation (blood relation) exist between her and her partner. She knows how to be a good and responsible wife, but she knows it better how to be an affectionate and responsible mother to her children. 'Husband - wife' relationship is entirely different from 'mother - child' relationship and it cannot be compared. It is a universal fact that 'her' (mother) love for children would always be more than her love towards her husband. Before I conclude - Here is a short story - 'A woman, her brother and her husband were passing through a dense forest during night. On their way they met with some dacoits. Dacoits were very cruel, they demanded money - all three said they did not have anything. Then the leader of the dacoits got very angry and said to the woman - "We will kill one of you, so you tell us, who should be that - your husband or your brother?" The woman replied - "You may kill my husband, because me and my brother are blood relatives, I can find another husband, but I cannot find another brother." So this story sums up my reply. Hope you would have got the point, which I wanted to make. :):)

Hello dear mimpi. I think that I am very lucky to have my wife in my life, ordinary-looking in the appearance, but very beautiful in the mind. My wife is very nice and kind to my parents and hers of course. When I am away from home, she calls to say hello and goes to pay a visit to my parents very often to check how they are getting along with their life to make sure that they are ok. I feel rested with my wife being so nice and kind to my parents. So I do not have to worry about my old parents living alone in their own apartment in the city. So based on my wife's performance, I have to say that my loved wife is the most beautiful in my family because of her beautiful mind. I think that beauty is in the mind, not in the appearance. Inner beauty is more important than the outer beauty. I have a beautiful wife. By the way, dear mimpi, I am sure that you have a beautiful hubby like I have a beautiful wife. lol

I enjoyed beauty of my wife in the following role. 01.On our marriage - as a beatiful girl. 02.on her pregrency- Charming Wife 03.After delivery - Loving mother 04.Caring children - Guiding mother 05.Married children - affectionate mother-in-law 06.To grand children- intimate grandma So I fell a woman gets beauty in every role. As A husband I am unable to judge which role is more beatiful.

Dear Mimpi, You have asked such a beautiful question. For me my husband of 30 years is more beautiful. I can tell you why it is. I jhave seen him not only as my husband, I have seen him as aloving son to his parents, as a loving brother to his siblings and al;so as a good father to our children and last but not the least as a good husband to me , adjusting with all of my mood changes and tensions. Oh Yes , he is a very good husband and has been one all this time. The most important thing is he has been a son to my parents also. About me and how I was to him, you have to ask him..

To me those are two wonderful women in my life-my mum was the first woman I ever saw-she remains the most beautiful woman in the real sense of the word, my wife just came to be the epitome of the absolute description of the woman of my life-she cares for me and raises my children-she is the one we shall live my life eternally with-she is everything to me-I dont see any significant beauty difference between these two women -but I know they are the only two women I have around my life to talk about with serious thoughtfulness and meaning-without them, my mother and my wife what would I be? Nothing I guess, Nothing completely mimpi1911

For me, when I love someone, there is no "more" or "less" beautiful. Everyone is special to me in their own way. While it's true I may have better relationships with some than with others, I love everyone in my family ust the same.

Not every couple become parents. Not everyone wants kids.

To be a good husband you should be kind, responsive, considerate, ready to lend a hand to your wife in all issues, (luckily my husband is) if you are that already... then you will make a magnificent father(more fortunately the father of my children is) So my husband is beautiful and the father of my childeren is extra beautiful...

After I had my kids I felt the kids were the most beautiful. But I really didn't see that much of a transition with my hunny.. LOL.. They are one and the same. LOL!! I think that everyone in life is beautiful.

first i like my mom and my father ............becoz from child wood they are taking care of me..........and given a very good life..which iam chatting with u then i go for my wife.........................................