My ex-husband wants me to marry again?
By ramsa2k
@ramsa2k (17)
India
5 responses
@love_maniac90 (1237)
• India
30 Oct 06
hey sree...dont talk like that...its a common issue now a days...be it indian or international...and moreover.when girls in india can wear transparent tops,can dance in discos at late hours and can have extra-marital affairs..then sharing some thoughts is not that wrong as u intened to mean...anyways ramsa...i dont know what s the real situation is as u described very briefly...but what i feel...just talk to your hubby frankly and find the way of patching up...if everything fails and it will difficul to marry some one else....dont marry...there are many women around who are not amrried or widowed or divorcee and living a great deal of life...
@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
30 Oct 06
Gee ramsa2k, if he's your EX husband, that means you're divorced...right? Well, if you two went through the time, expense, and heartbreak of a divorce, there must have been a good reason for it. If it was YOU that initiated the divorce, I think you have to ask yourself the reasons why you wanted to divorce him in the first place. (Was he mean? Did he cheat? Did he not pay any attention to you?) There must have been something there that you couldn't live with. If it was HIM that asked for the divorce, you have to ask yourself why he wanted a divorce...he was bored? He wanted another woman? Something else??
When you marry, it's in the best of faith. When you divorce, it's usually for a very good reason. Just because you still love him doesn't mean that anything else has changed. People can say a lot of things, and a lot of people lie to make things come out to their own advantage. Sometimes words are just that: 'words' You have to see if their actions are the same as the words that come out of their mouth. They can promise the moon, but if they're only just words, and they are not really trying...
Follow your head, and not your heart. Sometimes the heart wants things that the head doesn't think out. Good luck!