Children who loves watching tv and reading too..

Indonesia
February 16, 2008 10:58am CST
Many parents complain about their children who loves watching television. And of course the children don't like reading a book. I found that my niece addicted to television but still loves reading. Because her parents love reading and they always provide her good books and accompany her reading the books. Sometimes the problem is not on the tv shows and the children, but the parents themselves who don't like reading the good books for their children and leaving the children alone in front of the television. Sometimes the parents asked their children reading the books, but the parents watch the television. It's only my simple thought. What do you think?
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12 responses
• United States
17 Feb 08
i agree with everyone above. i believe that the parents are the one who influence the children. when i stayed with my dad on the weekends, he would do nothing but watch tv. in fact i've never ever seen my father read a book. so on the weekends i would do nothing but watch to tv. untill i came home to my mothers, who had a whole library in out house. i would read book after book after book. now a days im still addicted to the tv. but i read often too. so in conclusions, i believe its the parents.
• Indonesia
17 Feb 08
From the responses above I read the experience of the parents. And now you share the experience as a child. Thanks for the sharing. I can see the responsibility of the parents, especially from your father and your mother, totally different.
@youdontsay (3497)
• United States
17 Feb 08
I agree. Children thrive on their parents' attention. So reading with your child is a great way to spend quality time and instill in them a love for reading. Also, if they see you reading they are more likely to want to read too. I believe that parents need to limit the amount of "screen time" their children have - television and/or computer. They need to be playing active games/sports in the fresh air and reading good books. It is just too easy to let the t.v. entertain the kids and keep them out of their parents' hair. But it isn't good for the child.
• Indonesia
17 Feb 08
That's true. There are so many activities for children to enjoy it. Reading, watching television and playing active games or sport with their friends in the fresh air. The children need it all. Parents who love their children should be in their side as an example. Thanks for the response.
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@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
16 Feb 08
When my son was a lot younger - which was not that long ago - the schools and his Dr always said that if you want your kids to read, the best thing you can do is for them to see you reading, even if it is just a magazine or the daily newspaper. BY seeing the parents interest in reading, the child is going to like to read. We have 2-3 bookshelves full of books, we are always going to the book store and the library. My son loves to read and looks forward to going to the library, but he does also really enjoy his TV shows.
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• Indonesia
17 Feb 08
Thanks for sharing your experience with your son. That is what I talked about. Parents who loves reading put an example and of course the interest of reading to their children. You are the example of the good parents. I really appreciate it.
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@martinha (631)
• Portugal
17 Feb 08
People nowadays don't like to read, they think it's a waste of time. And that's only because some books have so many pages that they think it's boring to read it all. At least that's my friends' excuse not to read. I love to read and even if I don't read as much as when I was younger I still read. My parents always bought me books and I loved them. Parents don't seem to worry if their children read or not and that's a reason why children don't read more. TV is easier to watch, there is no need to think, to use your mind, while reading a book you need to focus on what you are reading. People don't like to make efforts, that's why most of them prefer watching TV to read a book.
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• Indonesia
17 Feb 08
Yes, that's true. People don't like to make efforts even tough it is a good thing such as reading the books. But, they like to watch television even the crap shows. Too bad if parents don't worry about their children read or not. Thanks for your comment, hopefully many parents will read it.
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@manya_pearl (1901)
• Singapore
17 Feb 08
I dont have children, but i do have cousins, they are 20 yrs younger than me. Their parents actually "seldom" to read book and prefer to watch news in tv. I always spend my time with them, ask about their studies and homework. I even talk many things about life, earth, or simple things about plants and animals. They were really interesting and asking me many questions, sometimes i even couldn't answer them. Children and young persons always "curious" for many things, they always wondering! Wise parents should bring their children, introduce them to the science and knowledge and basic morality. No child was born as a lazy or stupid one. They are developed to be a person as his model, his parents, adults around him, or his idols. Just give more exposures to their curiosity to the right way, through books and any " hi-tech" source of learning.
• Indonesia
18 Feb 08
So, do you mean if the parents failed to teach their children, there will be another people that showing them reading the books? In some cases, there will be. It would be their teacher, uncle or aunty, or adults around them. Yup, that's true. But, the responsibility should be on the parents, and they should not blame their children or the environments only. Thanks for sharing your experience. I really appreciate.
@littleone3 (2063)
17 Feb 08
I love to read and have always encouraged my children to read they always have books around them and they are all members of our local library. But my 14 year old is not so keen on reading even tho he has been brought up with books. My four other children just love to read my baby often comes up to me with a book and wanting me to read to him we spend many happy hours just reading the same book over and over again. And my older children will read to him as well.
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• Indonesia
17 Feb 08
So, it means you have the example of the four good children and the one with the problem. But, it's OK. Maybe your 14 years old son has found a new world in his age. You did your job. It's difficult to be an example for five children. But you made it.
@mansha (6298)
• India
22 Feb 08
I completly agree with you.My son plays a lot, reads a lot, watches TV a lot, plays computer games a lot. He is Good in his studies too. All it has taken is a well planned time schedule and some discipline in his and our lives too.
@Celanith (2327)
• United States
17 Feb 08
My kids now adults are avid readers and now my grandkids the eldest will be 12 next month read a lot as well but they also like to watch some t.v shows. So it is pretty balanced all the way around. The kids love to read and the little ones to be read too. We also sing songs and dance and are musical. The kids love that as well. Different nights we do different things. Read, T.V, Board game, sing, dance nights.
• Indonesia
17 Feb 08
Ha..ha.. It sounds your family live happily ever after:) Reading, singing, dancing and playing, oh you got all the enjoyments. Thanks for sharing your it, I really appreciate.
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
17 Feb 08
You are very right, my friend. You assessment of the way things sometimes are is quite accurate. It's not the tv, the shows, what they see it's how every thing is handled by the parents. I often wonder about some parents that blame everything and then some on the tv when they spend a lot of their lives glued to the tv themselves. Children can watch tv and still read books, play sports, do well at school. Children that do this have parents that usually have common sense and provide the children with other things that can interest them other than tv, parents that sit down and read a book as well, parents that talk to their children about the programs they watch. Your simple thought is indeed correct, and I am glad I found this discussion.
17 Feb 08
Thanks for your feedback. I am going through a Roald Dahl phase at the moment. Just finished Charlie and the chocolate factory and am now reading James and the giant peach. It is always fun to have a conversation about what we read about the night before and what we had just finished reading. I think it really makes it fun for both adult and child if you are reading something that is enjoyable to read or interesting to both. My son also reads me Fun with Dck and Jane as this book is a great way to help him learn to read.
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• Indonesia
17 Feb 08
Thanks for the compliment, I really appreciate it. I read a discussion from the parent that complaining about her child who don't like reading the books, and I think about it. I am amazed that many people thought the same too. Hopefully, many good feedbacks will be a lesson for some new parents.
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
17 Feb 08
Reading is a very enjoyable activity but when kids are starting to read it might be a bit frustrating. HOwever, when they have a home examples that adults read as well and help them see how fun it can be that small hurdle is easier to go over. Childrens books are usually simpler to understand but can still be interesting and reading them allows us to be able to discuss our reading with our children reading the same books. THe best incentive of all to get those kids interested in reading :)
17 Feb 08
My most favourite past-time is reading to my 5 year old son each and every night. We have had this routine going since he was six months old and we both cherish these 15 minutes at bed time. My son has a very creative mind and amazing imagination. Some TV shows encourage this (Dora the Explorer, Hi-5,Lazy Town to name a few)so TV definitely has a part to play in a childs life as long as it is quality TV. My son is not one to sit and watch telly unless others are watching it with him and then there is always dialogue going on about what we are viewing. It is very easy to whack the idiot box on to get some peace for yourself but think about the wonderful moments you may miss.
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• Indonesia
17 Feb 08
Wow, it sounds interesting and wonderful. It should be difficult to teach your creative son. But, you did it. Thanks for sharing it. Some experiences will be a good example for some parents.
@testim (89)
• China
17 Feb 08
Hi there....as you said,the problem is not on the TVshous and the children but the parents who dont like reading.Actually,watching TV is not something bad,and the crucial point is how can you control,if you choose a good TV program and enjoy it together, maybe your children could learn something useful...of course,the same way of reading.
• Indonesia
17 Feb 08
Yup.. that's true. Though in some cases, there are something wrong with the TV Shows and the children themselves. Remember, we live in the sinful world. But, it's not wise blaming the environment only without seeing the parents responsibility. And take advantage from the good TV Shows.
@shoumik12 (176)
• Bangladesh
17 Feb 08
Maybe you are right. When I was 10 I liked to read and play games all day long but that's all in the past now....
• Indonesia
18 Feb 08
I hope so it is right. This is only a simple thought. Because I have seen many children don't want to read a book, they prefer watching TV only. It's because of their parents. There's a different story for an adult. The world becomes more difficult.