Words of advice.
By IceMagi2
@IceMagi2 (102)
United States
February 16, 2008 3:54pm CST
When you find someone who you think will be a great match for you. Don't let your pride and curiosity cloud your judgment of that person.
If you do you may end up losing that person for good.
If you happen to find someone that you never thought that you would be interested in. Think about the situation and what you and the other person can get out of the relationship. That you will have to deal with if you choose to go through with it.
If you meet someone for the first time and you think that you hit it off great. Try not to let you hormones get in the way of getting to know that person. Because if you do then you may find yourself at the end of one-way feelings.
But if you really must discover the possibilities that can occur with this person and you think that you can handle the repercussions of the actions that you will be making. Then by all means don't let what I have said effect you in any way.
Would must of you agree with what I have said here?
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5 responses
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
16 Feb 08
oh wow this is very heavy, I had to read it several times, I think when it comes to relationships and meeting someone new we all should take our time, get to know the person as some people are very good at putiing up a fascade, and as we are all looking for acceptance and such and relationships are so important and we all have egos and the old saying that is so true the love is blind, we all must step back a little before we take on anything too serious, too many people are taking relationships these days way too lightly and I think a lot of people take meeting someone new lightly and only see the romatic visions as i think we all have been brought up with that fairytale happy ending...
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@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
17 Feb 08
Yes I very soooo much agree with what you have said. I had this BF I thought I was in love with n thought he loved me. Turned out he's an a** n dump me cuz he like one of my friends n then just wants to be friends wit benefits but don't think I even wanna do that. Guys suck so I'm just gunna wait n let the right one come to me. I think that's what everyone should do cuz not all guys stick to what they say to you their just liars n cheaters....Wish it wasnt that way but that's how the world is I guess...Hopefully one day we can all meet the one guy that isn't like that.....
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@anantvyas2306 (155)
• India
17 Feb 08
Great..nicely written...thought it took me 15mins to understand it :)...
Still I am agree with you.Also, whenever we meet someone, we always have some negative/positive aspects about the person,the first impression.Our mind walks on the same path what was made during the first meet.If we had negative feeling for the person,our mind would keep on checking the negative aspects and vice versa.
So,In both the situation, it would be better not to go in extreme.Better to be balanced :-).
Hope you got it.
Best wishes.
-AV
@Sungolian (377)
• United States
17 Feb 08
You make some good points. It's very important to assess every aspect of the situation. But I think sometimes you need to follow your heart too. You know, those feelings that you can't explain logically?
