For My Friends
By Leca
@lecanis (16647)
Murfreesboro, Tennessee
February 16, 2008 4:42pm CST
I have a couple of important things to say here at mylot today.
The first: Thank you. I have so many wonderful friends here, and many people have been kind and understanding of me over this past year. Several offered funds, prayers, and support when it comes to my son's health issues and our ongoing struggle there, and I appreciate all of you.
The second: I'm sorry. I've been pretty much absent these past few days, making a random post here and there without even responding to my own discussions, and I think I might have even failed to answer a PM or two. I've also been pretty much absent for quite a while now from Yahoo messenger, where a few of you had come to know me better, and I apologize for that as well. I have no excuse beyond my own mental and emotional instability. Forgive me, please, my friends.
This next week I'll be offline for a few days at least, because of taking my son to the doctor in Wisconsin, but I do hope to catch up at some point. I'm not leaving til Wednesday, so I might be on before that, but I can't promise I will. I can't promise much right now... for those who have come to depend on my strength and positivity, I apologize for possessing little of either at the moment.
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@kitchenwitchoftupper (2290)
• United States
19 Feb 08
As always dear little one, a plus rating for your discussion.
I am most sorry that I have been so much into my troubles that I have not been following MyLot very much lately and have not been aware of what is going on in Dusty's life. I'm so sorry that today is Wednesday and you are already on your way. Regardless, I know in my heart that you already are aware that my heart is always with you, even when we do not talk or write. I have been thinking about you the entire time I have been here in Indiana with my daughter, but my phone reception is not the best at this time. Regardless, please call me when you can and I will call you right back.
I did go to the link that Aiden helped you with. You have been blessed with a wonderful internet friend in her. I have no money until Monday, but I will add a contribution then. I love you and hope to be talking with you soon.~Donna Momma
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
19 Feb 08
Thanks for all the good wishes and kindness so far, everyone! I'll go back and do individual replies when I have a chance, but just wanted to say thanks! :)
I ended my fundable donations early so I could be sure to get the money in time for the trip, but for those who still wanted to give, you could send straight to my paypal: the email address is the same username as here at gmail.com. For all those who gave already, thank you so much!
Kitchenwitch, I'll give you a call as soon as I find something out about Dusty. I won't be online anyways while we're away, but I'll have my phone, so if the reception's okay I'll call on my trip.
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
17 Feb 08
What are friends for eh? It would be a poor show if we couldn't support each other! That's what great about this site you have all your friends around you to prop you up, support you and send you love, hugs and pray for you when you are down, we all go through bad patches and all have troubles it's great that we have so many who care. We miss you dear friend x
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
18 Feb 08
Hi hun,
thanks for your message. It was very thoughtful indeed! We can understand your point of view and i wish you good life sincerely. May things get your way no matter what. Accept my love and blessing for your son.
And strength and positivity never go away from your within. It stays there forever, only thing we need to whet it from time to time.
Good luck!
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
17 Feb 08
absolutely...much positive vibes coming from me too..
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
22 Feb 08
Just struggle along as best you can. It's ok for you to not be operating at optimum levels sometimes. No apology necessary. We all need to waddle through in a blind funk sometimes...it's preferable of course to have someone to lean on. It's been a while now...I've had things going on too and not been able to be here, so I hope things are on the up and up now. Hugs to you.
@scammerwear (1433)
• Singapore
18 Feb 08
Brightest Blessings to you and your son lecanis, may that which you hold divine, be with you always.
p.s. And if the doctor sux, just send me a photo... *cough*
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@raenie (705)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
My prayers are definitely with you right now, lecanis and with your son. I just hope & pray that everything will turn out for the best and do reserve your energy for your son. I am not sure what has been going on (sorry about that) but rest assured that there are a lot of people who care and who will include you in their thoughts & prayers! god bless you & your family! =)
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@Darkwing (21583)
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17 Feb 08
Lecanis, I'm sorry to hear you're feeling so down, and I hope things will pick up soon. I will have a candle burning for you and of course, for your son and husband.
It seems you need to find a little time for yourself, to cleanse and ward off the negativities, and find yourself again. You need some strength to be able to cope with your situation right now, and I'm sure your friends will get together and offer you energies, which will help you through the most part, but please do join with them, and strengthen your spirit.
Brightest Blessings. x
@teapotmommommerced (10359)
• United States
18 Feb 08
Lecanis we can live without as long as you take care of you and yours. I think you are more important than answering our posts or PM's. Please be safe and I hope you get some great answers when you take you son to the specialist.
love ya my prayers are with you.
@girlgonefishing (2174)
• United States
17 Feb 08
Hey there lecanis. I'm sorry you aren't feeling well mentally. There is no need to apoligise to anyone. I go through those funks myself so, I totally understand. I have been trying to get money into my PayPal account so that I can donate to your fund, but it doesn't look like I will be able to donate before your trip. I WILL donate. Perhaps you can use it when you get back.
@betsyraeduke (2670)
• United States
18 Feb 08
Hey lecanis well wishes to you and your son and everyone on your trip to Wisconsin. Also, no apologies necesary, even strong positive people are the ones who need the shoulder to lean on from time to time. Take care and think positive thoughts.
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@aidenofthetower (1814)
• United States
17 Feb 08
I think I speak for many when I say our hearts, souls, minds, and prayers are reaching out for you. I hope the little that some of us were able to do is a help to you in this time of need. We hope to see you make soon enough!
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@skinnychick (6905)
• United States
17 Feb 08
There is no forgiveness needed at all hun. We will all still be here when you get back and waiting for you! You need to focus on that cutie baby boy of yours and get through as I know you will! Big hugs!!!!!!!!!!!!
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@silentflame (27)
• United States
17 Feb 08
This I must say is my first response posted on mylot. I can only say to you that, just as others have already, mylot is probably the least important thing in your life right now. Focus on your health and your son. Sure it's important to keep in touch with others and help others out with your positive insight on their problems but, if you're not healthy enough in the first place, you won't be able to help others out before you help yourself right? Well, I feel for you situation and if your friends knew of your position at this time, they'd probably forgive you for not responding. =D take care of yourself and your son.
~Best of Luck
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
17 Feb 08
Aawww lecanis there is no need to apologize IMO....Bottomline, you have to take care of you and yours first and foremost and those of us that love, care and just flatout adore the hell outta ya understand that ;-) {{{{big hugs}}}...Hope all goes well at the doc, take care of you and pop back in when you get the chance to right :-)
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
17 Feb 08
Don't worry about my posts. They will keep. You are taking your son to Wisconsin? Is it a long trip? I hope not. Is the doctor a specialist?Well take care. I hope everything works out.
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@awonderfullife (2893)
• United States
17 Feb 08
Take the time you need,lecanis. We will be here when you get back.
Best of luck with your trip and with your son's health!
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@Raymo23 (463)
• Uganda
17 Feb 08
If you are talking about being away for a few days, how about me who has been away for months? And I dont have a noble and plausible excuse like you.
I pray for the best for your son, and hope he comes out okay.
Plus, thanks for always reading, and commenting about my poems. Its so inspiring.
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@dolce_vita78 (8062)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
Well, there really are times when we can't go online for very important reasons and I think people here understand why you haven't been aound for quite a while. Is you son sick? I hope he is okay. Take care of yourself and your family. God Bless you!
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@dangnabit67 (2021)
• United States
17 Feb 08
I hope your son will be ok. You have someone close to you that needs you now. Good luck, Melodie
