How to help
By loveyoohbaby
@loveyoohbaby (737)
New Zealand
February 16, 2008 7:35pm CST
How would you help some one that you know needs help but does not want help from the ones that matter the most when there husbands had cheated on them?.
1 response
@cynicalandoutspoken (4725)
• United States
17 Feb 08
The way I always handle friends who don't want help from anyone even when they desperately need it is to tell them that I understand what they are going through and I also understand that they want to get through it on their own but that I am there for them for whatever they may need whenever they may need it.
You would be surprised how many times they give in and break down and let me help them.
But if they don't want help you can't force it on them, they may end up resenting you for butting in to their personal business.
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@marque (19)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
whatever concern to your friend that you will give every help that you can give but it wont matter unless he will realize to himself that enough is enough....okay...just say what you want to say....i also have friends like that but i'm always direct to them....
