What do you do?
By IceMagi2
@IceMagi2 (102)
United States
February 16, 2008 8:19pm CST
What do you do when you once thought that you could talk to someone and then discovered that it was getting harder and harder to talk to them.
See I have recently started a friendship with someone, who I thought that I could have a nice relationship with, but then it got harder to talk to this person. I would leave them messages and call them from time to time. But either way that person never responded back to me.
So then I decided to let this person find their way back to talk to me. So now I wait to see if they will step up to the plate and continue what they started at one point. If not I guess the only thing that I can do is to move on with my life.
What would be your advice on this situation? Fell free to say whatever you like.
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2 responses
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
17 Feb 08
I have a belief that if you follow the inner voice you can't wrong, I believe your inner voice is a spiritual connection that is guiding us through our life journey and if you listen it will guide you to the right place, if you have opened the door to this person all you can really do is wait for them to walk through but if they don't and you like them a lot never close that door to them and make sure you let them know that they are welcome.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
18 Feb 08
Never give up hope, that is something that took me years to learn, anything is possible...
@SukiSmiles (1991)
• United States
17 Feb 08
I agree with lilaclady. You started a friendship, but if they are not willing to meet you part way is that really a friendship? I have friends where we are not as close as we used to be or don't talk anymore because things have changed in our life. I haven't closed the door of friendship on them, but will be there when they decide to strike it up again.
