faithfulness?

crying is the best feeling in the world. i cry all the time ! so basically what i would do is cry . i would let him know that im hurt and broken down into tears. i would let him know that i would never hurt him even after the fact hes hurted me. i would show him that my feelings do matter and that my reaction to this is really REAL ! depending on what he did to cheat , i dont know if i would forgive him or not ! IT ALL DEPENDS ! -Brittney

Been theredone that. Forgivness is something I did for my ego and to look good for family and friends. She was unfaithful because it was exciting, and work and family is boring. I should have bailed after the first time. Sorry to be negative, just my experience. TheOldGuy

My initial reaction? I'd definitely be angry, feel hurt and probably even cry if I love my partner that much. Even though he isn't worth my tears, of course I'll get hurt. It's like you trust someone and that person betrayed your trust big time by being unfaithful. It feels like you're being stabbed in the chest. If I caught him in the act cheating on me, I'll just walk away rather than jump over him and argue, etc. . If its that obvious that he cheated, then what's the point of continuing in a relationship when one isn't even honest to you. To sum up what I would do when I'm in that situation.. "I'll get hurt, cry, walk away and move on with my life." -Best of luck to you-

Faithfulness is always rewarded. It's a difficult topic. It's easier said than done. I don't really know what will I don if that happens. Probably, I will pray and fast about it for God's leading upon me on what should I do.

Hello luhar2001, my reaction to my partner cheating on me would be crying. I would cry my heart out. Crying makes them cry to, it makes them feel gulity for what they have done. Crying also lets your partner know how you feel and also let's them know that even after all this you would never want them to hurt the way you are now. I can not say whether or not I would forgive them for cheating. Especially if Iam in love with them. I would have to know why they cheated, if they were sorry, would they ever do it again? Even after knowing all this it still depends on what form of cheating they did. Faithfulness is the key to having a happy relationship. If you can not be faithful or truthful then there is no need to be together. With that said nakitalikely3617 is out.

If my husband cheats...he's out. I have been cheated on too many times in the past. He knew the score when we got married. I have always told him..if you find someone you would rather be with, just be honest and tell me. I could deal with that alot easier than I could if I found him sneaking around behind my back. We now have two little ones and if he cheated, after all we have been through, after we have made our children together, it would be unforgivable. Every time I looked at him, that is all I would be able to think about, so I am going to say that our marriage would be over.