Car Broke Down In The Line At The Stop Light. How Would You React?

United States
February 17, 2008 5:24am CST
My car broke down right at the stop light and I was amazed at how silly people are. Here I am have the hood popped up and the cars behind me are actually beeping their horns. Hmmm let me think the hood is popped and I just enjoy holding up traffic. There are times that I think that people can be such clod heads. I just shook my head. And not one person stopped to at least see if I could use some help at the very least to push my car to the side of the road to get it out of the way of traffic. People can react ridiculous sometimes. What would you have done in the same circumstance? Not being the one in the broken down car but being the one who is passing the broken car?
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
17 Feb 08
That sounds about right these days. People don't care. They don't help each other like they used to do. I think I would have done the same thing as you. I would have turned my flashers on and raised the hood to let others know I needed help and hope someone with a cell phone would call for help or help me push it out of the road. If I would have seen you broke down, being a lady, I would have stopped to help you or ask you if you need help or for me to call someone for you. I would not have passed you by. If it was a man, I don't think I would have stopped unless my husband was with me because it is so scary these days.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
18 Feb 08
Yes. Same here. I would call for help for the guy. If he was a fake I am sure he would leave. People do not care for one another like they used to. They are not willing to help at all. They would rather beep the horn, give you the finger or shoot you for being in their way these days. People are so uncaring and rude these days that I am even afraid to go to the grocery by myself.
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• United States
17 Feb 08
If it was a man with a car broken I probably wouldn't have stopped either but I would have made it a point of calling to send help to the person. Or people so into them selves that they can't even call and send help. The most amazing thing to me was how many of the people beeped their horns. People have no patience at all even if the problem is no fault of the person.
@ElicBxn (63608)
• United States
17 Feb 08
I have actually stopped and helped out people with broken down cars - if it is either incredably unsafe for them, or safe for me, especially if I have time. Now, sometimes it depends on WHO the person is. Like the little old lady who's car stopped on the access road of the highway & she wasn't smart enough/car savvy enough to turn on her flashers. My friend in the car with me & I stopped, turned on my flashers & started pushing her car out of the road. I guess when those big strong men saw 2 gals trying to push this car off the road, they pulled over & finished off the job for us. Then a police man showed up and I needed to get my friend back to her place so we left. I probably would be less likely to help a guy.
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• United States
17 Feb 08
That was really nice. As you said seeing two gals trying to help move a car to the side of the road would probably get a few guys to helping. But I was surprised at the beeping of the horns. With the hood up it was obvious that I was having car problems. I was that way for quite some time. You would think with so many people having cell phones that least that they could have done was call and send someone to help. You know like a policeman or someone.
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@ElicBxn (63608)
• United States
17 Feb 08
Maybe the people honking couldn't see the hood up? I know on my van, NOBODY'D see the hood up! LOL I do know that now that I have a cell phone, I'm always calling because of cars in trouble.
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@Darkwing (21583)
17 Feb 08
I would have pulled over to the side of the road, and asked you if there was anything I could do to help. You either needed to get your car out of the way of traffic, or have somebody who knew what was wrong, to fix it. If I wasn't capable of fixing it, I would have helped you get it to the side of the road, and then called a mechanic or breakdown service. These days, everybody seems to be in such a hurry to get from A to B and don't care a fig about others. Brightest Blessings.
• United States
17 Feb 08
That is the thing about it. How much time would it have taken to help me move it out of the way of traffic. Some of the cars that passed me had some pretty hefty guys in them. Or at the very least called someone. It just amazed me that they made use of their horns instead of their brains. lol. Yes, more often than not that is all people are concerned about is getting to their destination and getting there in a hurry. It would have taken so much time out of their busy schedule to give me a helping hand. I may not be able to help a person out but I would make it a point of calling the police or someone like that to help out the person. My Dad was always helping people out as was my Mom. There was many a time I heard them tell the person when asked how much was owed that just do it to the next person that needed help and that was all. I have seen on more than one occasion that people are not willing to help. It sure is different than when I was younger. But then again I suppose people have to be afraid of stopping and helping. But I was a women alone with the hood up by myself in a intersection with a stop light. Now come on what was I going to do hit them over the head with my purse. lol. And of course there would have been lots of witnesses. Go figure. Have a great and wonderful day today.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
18 Feb 08
I have been broken down at stop lights before. It is humiliating. And you are right....people are ridiculous about these things. I have even had people shout at me as they pass, give me the finger or stop behind me and lay on the horn as if I for whatever reason may be holding up traffic on purpose. Eventually there will be a kind person that does stop and actually offer some help. If I were on the other side of the situation, I would definitely offer to help, if not to just make a phone call and get some help.
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@Jimmy3371 (142)
• United States
17 Feb 08
Thats a good question cause this has happen to me, so I know what its like. I think people were this is happen to them knows what it is like to be out on the road broke down and they are more to lend a hand. people think there car will never brake down WELL FOLKS IT WILL HAPPEN TO YOU PLEASE LEND A HAND AND GET OUT AND HELP PUSH this is what I do not I will get out and help push you out of the way so the other road hogs can get on there way.
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• United States
17 Feb 08
I know that people are in a hurry and want to get where there going fast. But as my husband always says what goes around comes around. There will come a day although I will not see it that the same thing happens to them and they expect someone to stop and help them. Of course that is only if they don't have a cell phone with them. If they do they will just call for help. I just wonder sometimes where the milk of human kindness has gone.
• United States
17 Feb 08
opps I guess I should read before I post that not is not to be in there I will get out and help push
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• United States
18 Feb 08
If I saw that you didn't have a cell phone in your hand, I like to think I would have pulled over and inquired if you needed help. I would have let you use my cell phone to call someone and help you get the vehicle to the side of the road. People are so self involved anymore; it is sad and dangerous.
• United States
25 Mar 08
very good answer. You deserve the best response.
• United States
25 Mar 08
Thanks for the best response sunshinelady! Have a great day!
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Feb 08
Well as you must have been in a town I would have stopped and asked if you needed any Help but if you would have been in the middle of nowhere I would not have stopped Sweetie as it is to dangerous well here in the UK it is even for Men but I would have go onto my Mobile and phoned the Rescue Service to come out to you
@jess368 (3368)
• United States
25 Mar 08
This has happened to me before as well. I had an old beat up car, that stalled whenever it wanted. Especially when I had to stop. So I stopped at a red light, and when it turned green, my car wouldnt go. So I sat there for ten min, until it started again. I listened to many people honk at me, like I was doing this on purpose. Are you kidding me! Sometimes people are so heartless, I agree with you! I would not honk. I would help if I could, but other wise I would drive by slowly.
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
18 Feb 08
Helping each other here in my country is just a usual routine, though we have heavy flow of traffics here. People, bystanders and even fellow motorists would be glad to lend a hand for everybody's convenience. A women or lady in distress is one sight most of us do not like to see, so we do our best to help whoever needs it. I think that's the trouble with people who always considers time as gold, for everything they do should be payed with a certain amount. It's really frustrating, people should learn how to share good will gestures to others without even thinking of something in return..
@whittby (3072)
• United States
17 Feb 08
I would like to think I'd have stopped to help you. I would certainly be most hesitant to help a man though. But to be perfectly honest, if I was on my way to work or an appointment with a tight schedule, I don't know that I would stop. I might justify it to myself that you have a self phone and had already called for help, or that someone else will surely stop and help you. I don't care for that thought, but there it is..whit
@lexus54 (3572)
• Singapore
18 Feb 08
I will probably stop behind and ask what was wrong with the car, and then assess if I can be of any help. Once I stopped to help some guys whose car stalled on a major road and turned out their car battery was flat. Luckily, I had battery jumper cables in my car, and I helped them start up their car with the cables. In my country, when someone's car break down on the road, what the driver usually does while waiting for help to arrive is to stand behind his vehicle and wave the oncoming cars to move to the next lane, so motorists know there's an obstruction. Sometimes, if the guy needs to abandon his stalled car, he will open the trunk, insert some small branches, then close trunk so that the branches and leaves stick out of the car. Motorists will know that such a car is a broken down car. Those who have the red breakdown triangle may display them on the road a little distance away from the car.
• United States
18 Feb 08
I've stopped before to help someone with there car, found out after stopping it was someone I knew. Go figure. Otherwise, if it was somewhere unfamiliar to me or that I didn't feel safe stopping, I'd probably call 911 to see if they could get someone out there to help them safely.
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• United States
18 Feb 08
well me myself would have stoped to helped and being a man of god I would have pushed the car a side and just looked under the hood maybe i could have fixed it for free.We would have had some prayer and called on the name of Jesus
@TrvlArrngr (4045)
• United States
15 Jun 09
Once i broke down at a toll on a bridge in New york during rush hour. I was 1 car back from the toll booth so I completely blocked the way. I was rescued by a mechanic that had a shop nearby. He ran to his shop and got his tow truck to get my car. they had moved a big flashing arrow behind me and were going to impound it. This nice guy told them he was my brother and managed to get it released to him. He fixed my car and saved my life. There are nice people in the world!