your friend's marrying somebody you don't like....
By LeXDei
@LeXDei (209)
Philippines
February 17, 2008 12:19pm CST
A friend of mine is getting married. Problem is I don't feel that he's marrying the right girl. I met the girl a couple of times already and all those times were okay. However, I don't think that that was enough for me to ascertain her true person. I can't understand where my apprehension is coming from. I know that I am not jealous of her. Afterall, I've had friends who also got married but I didn't have this negative feeling towards their partners. If you are in my shoes what will you do? Will you be very vocal about it or you would just nonchalantly take the situation as it is and pray that their relationship last to prove your intuition wrong.
3 responses
@subha12 (18441)
• India
19 Feb 08
i think there is something in your subconcious mind. may be this time you are feeling jealous. don't take it badly. its my anticipation only.
may be truly she is not the right person for your friend.
May be without knowing you have grown some feling fopr your friend.
@angelkitten (38)
• United States
19 Feb 08
It's their decision, in the end. If you feel you don't know this person enough to have a true opinion, then it's best to simply support your friend. I think, unless he approaches you asking your opinion or talks to you about her in a way that maybe you should share your feelings, it is probably best to leave it be and wish them the best.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
•
17 Feb 08
Frankly I don't think that it has got anything to do with you. Your friend must make up his own mind. I think that the best thing that you can do is to stay his friend and be there for him whatever happens. If the marriage does not work you need to be able to provide a shoulder to cry on. Saying "told you so" will not make a difficult situation better. Hopefully everything will be well and you will be seen by him as a true friend, not a doubting Thomas.
