My boyfriend
@strawpurple6763 (372)
United States
February 17, 2008 4:04pm CST
I kicked my boyfriend out last weekend and I told him I wasn't going to put up with his drinking and telling me what to do any more. I had enough of all of it. All I did was cry all the time and feel down all the time. I told him he couldn't come home until he changed his attuide. And could treat with respect.
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@aminion (129)
• Canada
24 Feb 08
Just because we love someone doesn't mean that we can be with them. You where right to kick him out but stick with it if he wants to be with you he will change his way. If he doesn't then you are better off without him. I know from experience it is better to kick him out before you end up pregnant with his child and then trying to kick him out so your child doesn't end up watching him. Stay strong and the tears will end and then you will feel better about yourself. For demanding the respect you deserve.
@strawpurple6763 (372)
• United States
3 Mar 08
Well I don't have to worry about having a baby, because I can't have none. And we have been talking and he is willing to meet me half way and do some of the things I want to work on our relationship. And I think that is a good thing and a step in the right direction for him.
@strawpurple6763 (372)
• United States
24 Feb 08
If you don't get your point across then they think they can walk all over you. So you got to show them you mean what you say.
@punlonnjack (1308)
• United States
17 Feb 08
good for you for standing up to him. i had to leave my boyfriend four times before we acually got married...he did change for me and i hope the best for you two.sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt.if he loves you you may have to do this more then once.you should be treated with respect and he should treat you like gold.if he doesnt change remember you can always find better.
@strawpurple6763 (372)
• United States
18 Feb 08
He says if he got to change to keep me then that is what he is going to do. Because he says he can't live without me in his life. He says I'm the most importent thing in his life.
@cynicalandoutspoken (4725)
• United States
17 Feb 08
Good for you. But even if he does change his attitude I still wouldn't let him come back.
Even if he stops drinking and telling you what to do he has already shown you what he is capable of doing. Leopards don't change their spots, they just cover them up for a while.
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@strawpurple6763 (372)
• United States
18 Feb 08
If you show them you mean bussiness they will listen. And if they love you enough they will change for you. And he says he can't lose me me so he is willing to work on everything I have asked him too.
@sunshinegirl1 (436)
• United States
17 Feb 08
I had to leave my boyfriend because he spent most of his money on drinking. He has no job now but says he still loves me and wants be back.. But he hasn't stopped drinking.
@strawpurple6763 (372)
• United States
18 Feb 08
Like I told my boyfriend drinking has a place and that is on a weekend and just a few not to a point that you get into a fight. A job and a home and the bills come frist and if you can't see that then you don't belong with me. Because it takes to pay the bills if you live together.
@persephone04 (48)
• United States
18 Feb 08
It is awesome that you found the strength to stand up for you! Once you showed him you respect yourself and that he won't be able to push you around he will move off to another person.
I hope that you find the one your meant to be with.
Good Luck
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@avoiderdragon (23)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
If he really does love you, then he'll change regardless of the limits within himself. If he doesn't, however, then it is absolutely necessary to just forget about him.
Although guys do tend to stay stubborn when left alone...
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