love and communication
By ellyboy123
@ellyboy123 (54)
Philippines
10 responses
@talisman (1300)
• United States
20 Feb 08
While communication is extremely important to have in a successful relationship, it in no way indicates that someone is truly in love with you. When someone truly loves you, it's something that you'll just know and feel. If you have to ask (like you're doing right now), then they're not in love with you.
@bec2torreda (38)
• Philippines
19 Feb 08
constant communication can be a way that he is in love with you, maybe because he took time just to talk or text you or whatever form it is. because taking and having time with somebody is difficult for somebody who does not doing it often. Maybe that guy wanted to know more of you, to know how you will deal with him. and mind you, communication is a very good tool for the relationship to bloom and prosper. even if you are angry or not in the mood, communication is the best way to know how you feel...
@jhazie (340)
• Philippines
18 Feb 08
Yes communication is one of sign and ofcourse you will simply know by his action. :) not only words. he always contact you caring and he loves who you love ofcourse family.
@try32ends (207)
• India
18 Feb 08
Communication is an important ingredient of a relationship. However I dont think it alone indicates any special feelings. I guess if anybody needs to get a wind of the situation then one needs to study the whole thing. By whole thing I mean words, actions and chemistry. A relationship is a 2-way process and so the chemistry is essential. One's actions become important in showing how much he/she cares.
@babymar (359)
• Philippines
18 Feb 08
constant communication is one way to know if the guy is truly in love with you....the way he speaks, through the stories he tell, you will know what kind of guy is him....and if he truly loves you, he will have the patience to call you everytime, to talk with you every minute of his spare time....to know if someone is truly in love with you, you should know him very well first...then, you should feel his presence so you will know how much he cares for you....
@subha12 (18441)
• India
18 Feb 08
it is one important part of love. but it does not say all that the guy is truly in love. but it is a genuine indicator that i think.
In case you want to know in love, check whether that person reciprocate your thoughts or not.
@2btrueinu (700)
• Philippines
18 Feb 08
Hi! ellyboy, I will answer the 1st one first for me communication is one of the very important thing in a relatonship so it's really an indicator if you love someone you always want to hear from him/her. To know each other more deeper but sometimes it's depends to the situation if one of you are far maybe theres a reason but in our case here were hightech now so there no reason if you donot communicate to each other. 2nd thing you ask how do I know if he really loves me I will feel it, O know if he really loves me by the way he treat me, care for me, respect me and many more the main thing is you will feel it....
@chrysz (1602)
• Philippines
18 Feb 08
I don't think that that is enough indicator that a person truly loves you because I know one person who constantly text his girlfriends ("have u eaten baby?, how are you my love?", etc) but wickedly, those messages are not just intended for one person. Of course, as a girl, you would feel so loved and cared for when a guy constantly gets in touch with you but you also have to consider the sincerity of the guy.
@Betty34 (267)
• United States
18 Feb 08
hi ellyboy,
Constant communication is definitely not an indicator of knowing whether someone is in love with you. Only an indicator that they like to talk, and they like to talk to you.
You will know they are in love if they would do anything for you. If they want to meet your family, if they want to know EVERYTHING about you, if they think your flaws are cute, and most important, they love you UNCONDITIONALLY.
Love is many things, but it certainly isn't easy.
I hope I have helped.
B