how do u feel when some1 come 2 u for help but cant hel that persons?

Bangladesh
February 18, 2008 4:04am CST
plz say wat u will do in this situation?
3 responses
• United States
18 Feb 08
i've been in this situation time before.the best way to not make ppl mad,is to just be honost with them and tell them why you can't make the help that they need.it seems to make them feel more secure about it,and that they respect you for telling them the truth.
@etavasi (749)
• Malaysia
18 Feb 08
Yes, just tell them the truth. But long time ago i just make a lie to my friends. because of i'm to tension of my exam. I know how to help them but, in the same i need the last minute to study for my exam. I agree with you, telling the truth is the best way.
• Bangladesh
20 Feb 08
yea but wat if the person is in really fall into deep problem. do u think urself as guilty for not helping tht person ?
@etavasi (749)
• Malaysia
18 Feb 08
Hi, nice discussion, it's always happen to me long time ago. The situation is like this, my friends have something like homework, what i means is project to sent it tomorrow. Then he came to me asking if i can help, in the same time, tomorrow is my exam, i haven't yet study that subject. I know i can help my friends to do it, but it take time to teach. What i do is, i just tell my friends i dont know how to help him, "i can't help" i just say it, i lie to them (sorry my friends). Then i pray to GOD to help them, hope my friend can do it.
• Bangladesh
20 Feb 08
thnx for your reply but do telling lie is rite in this matter ?
• Indonesia
20 Feb 08
We've all been in this situation before, the easiest way is to lie. Just tell them that you're busy doing something and usually they'll leave. But we all know the best way is to tell them the truth, so there is no guilt left for those who can still feel it.