If your love spy you, is that Love?

I think you should talk about this to your b/f. Even though in relationship is about sharing, but there are some spesific area that shouldn't be trespassed, it's not about hiding it, these two factors are very different. In this case you can go forward and ask him, "What if I do the same thing to you? Monitoring all of what you did?" Sounds rude, but it works. Better quarrel in front rather than after. Men need to be requested, and they will notice that.

My husband and i know every password and website that we go on, but we don't check. It has to be all about trust or the relationship isn't gonna make it. we give each other that so that there is no doubt in each other's minds that anything is going wrong. but to be honest, my husband and i trust each other fully and we don't worry because we know that we love each other enough not to worry with all the nonsense of being jealous and all that crap. that's the problem with so many relationships these days. stop being jealous and your lives will be so much happier and less stressful. good luck to the both of you and God bless

i think that person is over protective. or may be not so open minded. in any relationship its the trust taht should be there i guess. if it is broken , then there is no meaning of it.

I dated a guy who was always sneaking around and checking up on me. I found it very insulting. I am honest and never have nor never would cheat. The final straw was when he read my horoscope on the internet. It said that I was going to have a "hot date" that day. He came by my place, saw that I had done my hair and put some makeup on. I had no clue to what was in his head at that point. thought he was just in the area and stopped by for a coffee. After he left, i went to the store and got some things for dinner. I was going to invite him over but it never happened. Apparently, he came back by, saw my car gone and jumped to the conclusion that I was out doing stuff behind his back. I had had enough and broke it off at that point. Now I hope he is at least happier since he no longer has to worry about losing me to some other guy.

hello there to U...i think your boyfriend's just concerned about you...apparently, he loves you so much because he's spying you...yes, trust is really important in a relationship...but maybe he just wants to be sure...honesty is really important too in a relationship, and it's good that you're honest and that you love him so much... In my own point of view, every relationship went through that kind of situation, where you or your partner are spying secretly to each other...and in my opinion, they're doing it because they love their partner so much that they don't want to lose them in their lives... I hope and pray things will work out well with you and your boyfriend and it will turn out into a beautiful relationship...best wishes to both of you...i am blessed to know that you are happy...keep the love in your heart girl...have a blessed day to U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family more and more blessings!!!

Hi there! It's good to hear that you are nearly married. I think ur man is just jealous because u divert the attention to other things than him? i dont wanna judge but it's my perception based from ur story. It's good that you follow him, like you deleted your friends so that there's no argument or anything. But reflect on your own, are you happy doing this for the rest of your life.!? You're the only person who could answer your question. Just as long as your bf loves, respects you emotionally and physically then it's good. But you have to tell him also that your love is only reserved for him and trust is really important for each other. But you can't promise that all the attention would be for him since you also have your friends. Online issues are just a small ones, what if you face a different issue in the future. You have to prove him that he's the only man for your life. God Bless!

No, that's not love at all. Love is all about trust and honesty. If you feel that you have to spy on someone, you don't trust them or love them. Snooping behavior like that can easily turn into abuse and generally does. A relationship will never survive without trust. I would definitely reevaluate your relationship with this man and put off the wedding until these issues are dealt with.